#1: SMILING



A great smile emits from your eyes, not your mouth. The showing of teeth with dead looking eyes would be more of a grimace than a smile. Take the time to build a pleasant state of mind required to transmit warm, sincere smiles.

#2: YOUR LAUGH

Laughter is the release of emotional tension. If you and a girl are laughing together, you will be much more likely to want to see each other again. Generate laughter by saying and doing funny things. You can fine tune your funny bone by listening to professional stand-up comedians. Note the comedians' expressions, their word choices, their vocal intonations, their facial expressions, and hand gestures.

#3: BANTERING

Banter is lighthearted teasing. It's a humorous way of making inside jokes with your partner. It displays that you aren't dull and you're ready to extend beyond your comfort level of politeness. It tests the confines of propriety with entertaining role-playing, sometimes even imitating your partner, by over exaggerating their mannerisms. Banter isn't serious; it inserts a mood of levity into your conversation. If you have a romantic interest in your partner, you can pepper your banter with intimate innuendo. If your partner reciprocates your banter with quips of her own, this is a great indicator, keep the mood fun and play along.

#4: SHARED EXPERIENCES

Sweep her off her feet. Discover her thrills and enjoy them together. Share a new adventure together, one that she has not had. Give her a ride on your bike. Go vintage shopping together. Take her scuba diving. Utilize this ultimate attraction step and you'll surely be able to win her heart, mind, body, and soul.