A very common problem that stops people from successful weight loss is using food as a reward. For adults, almost all social activity revolves around food or drink so it is easy to associate food with celebration. Generally the cake, cookies and ice cream we eat at celebrations and wash down with equally celebratory champagne is not the type of food that we would include on a calories loss diet in a serious effort to regain our healthy body.

Did you win a big contract at work that the boss will probably take you out to lunch to celebrate? Do you have an important anniversary coming up when your spouse will probably make reservations at a nice restaurant? As there always seems to be a reason to celebrate in our lives, it is not surprising then that people use food to reward themselves for accomplishments.

Rewarding yourself is a healthy part of life and you should continue to do this but you need to find alternative ways of doing this and avoiding those greasy potato chips with a glass of wine at drinks on Friday night. The downside to these ways of rewarding yourself with food is poor quality of what you eat and the fact that most of this is generally too filled with fat, sugar or carbohydrates. It would never appear on your calories loss eating plan and ultimately stops you from losing weight and becoming healthier, so reward yourself differently in the following ways.

Decide why you use food as a reward, whether it is a habit you have developed or if it comes from one of your family traditions. As soon as you understand why you reward yourself with food, you can take steps to modify your behavior, either alone or with the assistance of a therapist. Many of the attitudes we have towards food come from childhood when parents offered candy to kids to stop crying or to eat their vegetables.

Make a point of not rewarding yourself with food the next time you have cause to celebrate. Instead of celebrating an achievement at work, or a special event at home, instead of going for dinner, drinks or even coffee and cake, go shopping instead, pamper yourself with a spa treatment spa or even go to a movie or a play. Rewarding yourself with treats like these will help you feel pleased with yourself and you will have the added bonus of sticking with your calories loss diet and continuing to lose weight.

Search out rewards that you can enjoy for an extended time, unlike food rewards that only last as long as it takes to eat them. Spend an afternoon at the beach, go to the craft store and blow $20 on any craft supplies that look fun, treat yourself to a day at a local spa or be like me and splurge of a new bottle of perfume or pair of shoes. There are endless ways of finding longer lasting rewards than foods and every time you use them, wear them or experience them they remind you that you are achieving your work or family goals as well as your health goal; sticking with your calories loss eating plan and continuing to lose weight.

Find places for celebrations near you that are not restaurants even if this requires some changes in your thinking because most of our lives revolve largely around eating and drinking. Instead of restaurants find places where the focus is more on what you do rather than what you eat and play golf, go bowling, take in a play, go to a movie or take part in any entertainment that do not focus on food. You will be surprised about how others you know will enjoy the prospect of fun without wall to wall food and drink.

Limit your participation at functions where food is a central part of the festivity as this will involve you eating food and is likely to slow your weight loss success. Consistently avoiding these events is not always possible but if you are the bridesmaid at your sister's wedding or the MC at a corporate function make sure that you enjoy the people at the event or the entertainment there rather than the food. Take special note of the food on offer and carefully select dishes that are closest to your calories loss menu and will help you reach the goal you have set yourself for a new look and healthier life.