A traditional wedding shower, also known as a bridal shower, is a party that is for ladies only. However with the trend of wedding showers today, Couple wedding showers are becoming popular where more and more soon-to-be brides and grooms are being honored together by their friends and families. Unlike with traditional sandwich and pastel décor type showers, a couple shower is more casual and usually involves a meal or hors d'oeuvre. Beers and wines are often served also depending on the time of day and event. Indeed, to plan of throwing a shower party for the couple may seem like a challenging task but planning and preparing smartly can pull it all together easily.



The Preparation

The first thing you should consider is your budget. Decide how much you can and willing to spend. Determining a budget will guide you in many decisions you will be facing during the process of planning.

Next is to make the guest list. The guests you should include are those people whom the couple would want to be present at the party. You may ask the couple, their families and friends to ensure you are not missing those that should attend. Make the most of this time by asking for contact information of the guests. Just be mindful of your budget and limit the list accordingly.

After finishing the guest list, you have to decide what them you should use. Decide on the best theme and the rest will fall into their respective places. Choosing the perfect theme is one of the best part of the process. Consider to pick the theme that fits the couple's personality and will be enjoyed by a mixed guests. There are several shower themes to choose from and you want to pick the one that has something to do with both the bride and groom.

Next is you now have to set the shower date and time. First, you have to consider to make a good timing of sending the invitations. Usually, invitations are sent four to six weeks before the event. This needs to be factored-in when setting the date. Second, consider the availability of the couple. It is always best to get a list of the couple's available days and times. Third, don't forget your schedule, since you are the host of the shower party. Make sure you give yourself enough time to complete and execute the plans with less unnecessary stress of time constraints.

Also, you plan for some fun. A well prepared shower should be fun. Including activities and wedding shower games in the shower party will serve as the ice-breakers, and get the party going on. Have some music played to set some mood, make sure it is loud enough to hear but not drowning-conversation. Wedding shower party favors are good add-ons too. It is always best to prepare shower favors that fits the theme of the party. You may also consider personalized and unique favors which are perfect shower gifts for the guests. So, there you have it, plans on how to make a perfect couple wedding shower! Have some fun and enjoy!