Now rewind the night ? what did you miss? You were savvy and charming. You were confident without being arrogant. You were a perfect gentleman and you dressed properly according to your own standards? Oh wait. Could that be it? Were you really dressed properly? Dwell on the thought for a long time so you'll learn to swallow it because it certainly was the clincher.



You've been hearing a lot about how first impressions last and how it could easily ruin a person instantly. If you're really not the fashionable type, you should know better than to rely on yourself to put together the ensemble you ?think? will make a very huge impact on others because this could cost you big time. How long did it take you to prepare for the date really? Did you exert an effort? Did you think you dressed to impress? Well, she probably didn't think so.

Now chew on this. Women have this penchant for details. Why do you think they spend so much time in front of the mirror? They are detail maniacs on the loose! The color combination, accessories, hairstyle, zit, scent, and brands ? these are only some of the things that matter. Now mix these things up to make a whole and that, too is a separate detail in itself. It's noble to see beyond the physical but you should know that the outside look does a lot of wonders for a guy. Now, listen well and grab a few or all the tips that follow. It will do you good someday.

Do not go out on a date under dressed! It doesn't matter how comfortable you feel wearing your favorite shirt with that pair of pants that could really use some detergent along with the sneakers you've been using for ages. It is not acceptable. Give a lot of consideration on how much thought and preparation the girl has put into her look just to meet your lackluster self. Imagine how plain you'd be beside her. You'll easily disappear into the void I tell you.

Throw those shirts with nasty prints away and burn them together with your worn out tennis shoes and your dated concept of fashion. Double-check what you keep in your closet and throw everything that won't pass these written rules. Call up a very good friend and seek for advice and bashing opinions before you go out on a date. Set aside some time to prepare. Press your decent shirt and pants, as those will add up to something eventually. You should make your date feel like you went to some extent to impress her.

Not because it was said that under dressing is a no-no, you will take it to heart and decide to experiment and heck, indulge. Do not even consider it. Second rule is not to over dress. In time you will learn to balance the two rules and you'll become a much better eye candy.

Once worn, throw that shirt to the machine and wash it before using it again. Hygiene is too important! Next, do not go overboard with brands as if you've become a walking billboard with their logos splattered all over you. Brands say something but there is nothing wrong with one clean, classic, plain decent shirt. Stay way from the knitted gifts grandma or mom gave you last Christmas as well as shirts that show some silhouettes of your nipples.

If you're fit and your body's not too bad, don't get too excited about wearing a tight shirt. Leave something for the imagination? If your belly's going south, a tight shirt shouldn't even be an option. Keep in mind three Cs at this point: casual, comfort, classic.

Now that you're dressed, you need to wear a nice, memorable scent that a girl will identify you with in the future. When it comes to perfumes or colognes, a mysterious trail on critical parts should do the trick (read: wrist, neck and chest). It won't really help your image if you would spray the ml's off the bottle abundantly on your body. You'd end up irritating a lot when you pass by.

Some women prefer men who look rugged but it could be a little too unsafe for some so it is always better to go for the clean-shaven look during first dates. Cut your fingernails please. Comb your hair neatly and dab just a speck of hair setter to hold some strands in place. Never ever scoop and slather so much hair gel as this is a major turn-off. Brush your teeth. Floss. Stay with the hygiene basics. Should you decide to accessorize, live by the mantra, 'Less is more.' You can choose between a watch and a bracelet along with a ring or necklace. If you wear too many pieces of jewelry and your date is on the minimal, we might have some problem.

The good news is, not all women are the same. There are individual preferences and these vary from person to person. Although this is the reality, most girls agree that a clean, minimalist approach to grooming is attractive and counts as a good first impression. So, read this article again and again until you breathe it. These will surely guide you in dressing up for your next successful dates.