Many men find women mysterious and difficult to please. Well, it could be because you're not doing enough to please your woman. Especially on the first date, you want to make sure that you are doing things right to create a lasting impression. Below are some tips to help you plan an unforgettable and memorable first date.



A first date should be fun, light, and romantic. A real first date is when both of you decide to get together for more than just a quick beverage. Coffee dates are usually just pre-first dates, so steer clear from coffee shops. But whatever venue you choose, always remember that a woman's definition of a good first date is you picking her up and making reservations.

When you are planning a first date sometimes it helps to be a little mysterious. You should not inform your date on what you are going to do because most women love surprises. This way you will get your date to think about you all the time, which is a great thing.

Also, remember that a first date should only be around 1 to 2 hours - and not any longer. You don't want the date to drag on and on. A movie that lasts 2 hours or more is not a good idea. You want to keep your date wanting more, so keep your dates short.

Plan in advance. You want your date to anticipate meeting with you, so it's wise to plan in advance and inform her of your planned date days before your actual meeting. This way, you'll be able to create more romantic tension by giving her several days of looking forward to meet you.

Always confirm your date. You don't want to leave your date anxious, especially if you leave your plans vague or hanging. Confirm your plans early on so your date can prepare and avoid stressing herself out.

Always be on time. It's bad enough for a man to let women wait, and so much more on a first date. If you can't help but be late because of unexpected delays, then at least let her know that you'll be arriving late.

Compliment your date. Women often spend a lot of time to primp themselves up during pre-dates, so the least you can do is compliment her. You can try the classic "You look great", or be more specific and say "Love your shoes" immediately upon your arrival. This will set the positive and warm tone early on the date.

Be a gentleman and pick up the check. Women spend a lot of money, time, and effort to get themselves ready for a date (think: bikini wax, blowdrys, manicures, lingerie, accessories, blah blah..) At least pick her up and pay for her meal!

Be honest. If you did not enjoy your date, then you should be honest and let her know (but not brutally honest) and say "I appreciate your coming out with me tonight. It was nice knowing you" rather than lead her on and say "I'll call you" when you won't. But if you did have a good time with your date, then send her home, make goo-goo eyes with her and tell her you had an amazing time. It's good to move in for a kiss to let her know that you are interested. But if she's not ready for a kiss yet, settle for a warm hug. Set up a second date right then and there!