In this article, we will explore how to stop a break up through a letter, email or text messages. However, it is preferable that you use a hand written letter instead of an email or text messages.



It is very likely that you have done something that should not be done in the first place. If you have been calling her again and again and she did not want to answer your call, it only shows that she is trying to avoid you. This is usually the case, especially just after the break up.

This means she wants to have some space. So what you should do is to give her the space. If you can't get her to respond to your call, here is what you may want to do instead.

You can either do this through a letter, an email or even a text messages. Of course, like what I have said in the beginning, using a handwritten letter is better than using text messages or email. This is what you can write in the letter. Tell her that you agree that perhaps breaking up is the best thing for both of you now.

You may not be very comfortable about agreeing with the break up. But remember one thing. The break up has already occurred. Arguing about it is only going to make things worse. So, it is better to accept it graciously. In fact, by doing so, it put you in a positive position and there is a psychological reason behind this principle but is beyond the scope of this article to discuss about it.

Next, you want to tell her that perhaps it is best not to meet up for the time being. This is to give both of you time to cool down. Tell her that you will love to meet her again after that.

By doing so, it is more likely that she will have a more positive response, once she realizes that you won't be pestering her. This will give you a better chance to get back with your ex girlfriend in the future.

Remember, you don't want to give her too much pressure now by calling her too often. It may force her to cut off all contacts with you and that will make you task of getting your girlfriend back very difficult.