If you are like a lot of people I meet, you probably have too much on your plate. Your Blackberry is jam-packed with all the commitments you have to keep. At the end of the day, do you find yourself wondering where did the time go AND frustrated because there's so much more that you want to accomplish! Here are 5 Tips to help you "button up" your life so it's a lot less hectic and more streamlined. Follow these guidelines and I guarantee that life will be easier and you'll get your life back!
5 Top Ways to Systemize and Simplify
1. Stop Recreating the Wheel: Document your processes. Write down each step you take to accomplish certain tasks, such as online-billings, telephone sales-scripts, standard mail responses, or new client intake procedures. This way you don't waste your valuable time looking for what you need and re-doing your process every time. All you need to do is create a document with a list of the steps clearly defined and save it. The next time you need to do x, y or z, you've got the template or list of steps you need to take right at your fingertips. Doing this will help you to be a lot more efficient with your time, allowing you to do more of what is important to you.
2. Create a Master List of PassCodes: Ok, this tip alone is worth its weight in gold. How many times have you been unable to complete an online transaction, log into your favorite site, etc, etc all because you can't remember your username and passcode? You tie up your valuable time either A) Going through the process of creating an all new Log in OR B) you spend your precious time hunting for this information. What to do? Create a Master List of all of your usernames and passcodes and save it on your Desktop for easy access. Problem solved.
3. Delegate, Delegate, Delegate: Are you using your "Core Genius?" What I mean by this is, are you doing those things in which you excel, that are your strengths and talents? The bottom line is that you cannot make a million dollars spending time doing $20/hour jobs! Hire a Virtual and/or Personal Assistant so that all the pieces and parts of your personal and business life are taken care of so that you can use your time doing those things which are meaningful and/or profitable for you.
4. "Batching" Your Schedule: Plan your schedule so that you do similar types of tasks or projects that are similar in nature. Some of our work may require our analytical or our creative brain. You save yourself so much time if you do things that are in keeping with the state of mind that you are in instead of switching back and forth, which can be a real time waster. So "bunch" your tasks together based on what type of task they are. A huge time saver!
5. Add More "Wiggle Room" to Your Calendar: Be kind and reasonable with yourself! Are you your own slave driver? Most people tend to "underestimate how much time they actually need to complete a task or project. The result? Half-baked concepts, incomplete work, projects that take FOREVER to finish, not to mention the inner frustration you feel because you feel like you just aren't getting anywhere. It's easy to get of tou tof this mode, be more realistic when you plan and set your schedule. Give yourself extra time and space to do what you need to do. A great way to get better at this is to actually keep a time log, so that you know exactly how much time you need to do certain kinds of activities. This works great!
So there you have it, 5 top ways to claim more control of your schedule so that you are able to do what matters in your life and in your business. So go forth and be your brilliant self and have some fun while you are doing it.
Get Your Life Back
A break up is always an emotional time. Losing your husband or wife after vowing to live happily ever after is always difficult and traumatizing, and may seem leagues more important than when breaking up with a girlfriend or boyfriend, because there's property to be divided and custody to be determined and alimony to pay. But breaking up with a girlfriend or boyfriend is just as difficult and traumatizing because of the enormous emotional loss that's always involved with a break up.
If it's the kind of break up that has you waking up in a cold sweat in the middle of the night, or not letting you sleep at all, you may start thinking that it was the kind of love that may never come again. This would naturally lead to believing that she or he was the one, and now they're gone forever.
Or perhaps, all is not lost? Once you find a moment in between crying bouts, ask yourself if the relationship is still salvageable? If the answer is yes, undeniably yes, without missing a beat yes, then ask yourself another question - why are you so upset?
Are you worried that nobody may love you the same way that you were loved in that past relationship or that nobody may love you at all ever again? This is a real fear to consider, but don't get back together with your ex if this is the case. First of all, look at the main root of your fear - you are afraid of spending an eternity alone. It's not about the other person in particular, it's about you. The other person is merely a convenience - he was around, she knows everything about you and you can wear your hideous underwear in front of her, and so on. The main point is, you may not be as broken hearted and devastated as you thought you were, you're just not willing to start from scratch looking for your next relationship.
What you should do is learn to relax and love yourself a bit more. Look at this break up as more a time for you to rediscover who you are, independent from anyone else. Find hobbies and new interests, preferably things that you would be good at. This will build your self-esteem and keep your feelings of hopelessness at bay. And you become a better person, with or without a significant other validating this for you.
Now, if your answer to "Why are you so upset?" is all about the other person - how your ex is so great and how genuinely sorry you are that you contributed to the downfall of your relationship, then this relationship is definitely worth saving.
Of course, your ex might not want to get back together with you. Respect their wishes, offer to be friends and try not to ask for too much of themselves as real friends would. Your ex will appreciate this thoughtfulness and even if you don't actually get back together, they'll still be in your life. And that's better than their being gone forever, isn't it?
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