Many men seem to be on the complete opposite of the situation. They do not appear to enjoy using the phone at all. However, do not pull yourself apart in case you find yourself with such a guy. There are some simple measures that will help you to spark his interest and he will long to call you.



Stop calling for a few days

You need to check your own actions to help you determine the real cause behind his failure of calling. Perhaps he does not see any reason why he should do so since you are already doing it anyway. When your guy is content in the knowledge that you will contact him, he will just sit back and wait for your call. Hence it is important for you to determine whether you are the one making your guy not long to call you. If you have been calling him often, do this test.

Stop calling for a few days. When you stop calling your guy, he will long to call you instead in order to find out what's happening.

Stop your accusations

Unless you are interested in driving that guy away, you should not get used to pointing an accusing finger at him whenever he calls. If you appear too demanding and dramatic, your guy will simply avoid you. As much as you would like to lash out at him for neglecting you, don't do it when he finally calls. Otherwise he will let you make the calls, which he may direct to his voicemail.

When he stops calling

There are instances when the guy often called regularly only to seem to lose interest. When you get the opportunity to spend time together, study how he reacts. In case he is interested, his lack of calling may be his way of gauging your reactions. Interestingly, your apparent lack of notice of the situation will just make him long to call you.

If you would like to make your guy long to call you, show your independence and give him his own space too.