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If You Dont Ask

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It is always interesting to me that a buyer or agent will call me up and ask me, as the listing broker, if the seller is flexible on the price. The more aggressive ones will even be so bold is to ask me ?How low will the buyer go down in price?? or ?What is the sellers bottom price?? In September 2004, I listed a house in Moorpark California at $539,000. The 3 prior sales for the same model were all at exactly $615,000 and closed escrow in April to June 2004. This was just before the real estate slowed down in summer 2004. I had received 3 offers between $510,000 and full price within the first month. The seller didn't accept any of the offers because she wanted more than my asking price. I had promised her multiple offers and hopefully a bidding war. Then I got a phone call from an agent in Thousand Oaks. ?My client does not want to pay over $500,000 for a house. Will your clients take that offer? I want to know before I show them the house, because I do not want to waste their time.? My response; ?I never know what my clients will do. Make an offer and find out.? They never looked at the house or made an offer.



I find this very interesting, because one for one, regardless of my answer, I have never received a written offer, after one of these phone calls. Buyers, who do this or send their agents to ask, are not really buyers, in my opinion. They are tire kickers, someone just curious how low a seller will go. With the information they go to the next seller and tell them ?The Jones's will take $---so you are too high. If you want to sell it you have to come down.? There was no offer in that comment that if the seller came down that the prospect would buy. This person is looking for the cheapest deal he can find, and experience has shown that when they find it they are still not satisfied because they may find a cheaper deal.

I remember when I was taking a class in negotiations in 1980 and learned never to get caught in this game. It was 1983 and the market was dead. I remember that the agent for a house in Beverly Hills offered a Free Rolls Royce with the house he was selling. I had been trying to sell my house in Arcadia for $250,000. A buyer came to buy and asked if I would take $200,000. Being well trained I said. ?Will you buy the house for that price if I will? The prospect, not really being ready to buy, said, ?I'll have to think about it.? What the buyer prospect didn't know was that if I gave him the house for his offer price he would have made $20,000 the day he closed escrow. The truth is he didn't know what the house was worth and he wasn't ready to buy it for any price. He was house looking and it was fun to see what you could negotiate.

Why I never answer this question about ?What will the seller settle for??

First of all, legally, to answer this question would be a violation of my fiduciary relationship with the client. If the client is asking $400,000 for a business or real estate he has stated his asking price in the listing. For an agent to say anything else means that the asking price is not real. We might as well just put a number out there like $350,000 or Best Offer. Most car dealers do not take my offers even if it is the best offer. They have an undisclosed bottom price. Why bother putting asking prices on anything if you are then going to say the price is flexible. Let them make an offer and find out if the price is flexible.

Besides the legal aspects I have learned, from experience, that I do not really know the answer to the question. Sellers will tell me that their bottom line is $400,000 but then accepts an offer for $350,000 after 3 weeks of negotiations. Time changes peoples mind as to what price they will settle for. If the seller has a bad week, his accepting price will change. Time and circumstances changes everything.

This shows up when sellers are talking to buyers directly. If the seller is going to say anything directly to a buyer about the being flexible on the price, he is cutting his own throat. Why bother put an asking price on a property or business if everyone isn't going to tell the same story. We might as well just publish bottom price that the seller will not go below under any circumstance. The seller will never get more than the price he tells anyone he will settle for. But more importantly, I would be only guessing. I do not really know what is going on in the mind of my clients.

In summary - when putting a business on the market, a seller must state an asking price. Sellers have a difficult decision when determining an asking price. Either 1) The asking price is the seller's real bottom line price and more traffic will be created but, buyers might still offer less. OR 2) They ask higher than they are willing to settle for and so have room to negotiate but if the asking price is too high the buyers may not look at the business at all. This is a real dilemma for Sellers.

Buyers, many times, are afraid that if they make an offer substantially less than the asking price that the seller will be insulted. This is very true. This seller, based on one of these two methods, has decided on the asking price. It is both illegal and immoral for the broker to discuss the seller's position on price without an offer in hand. If you have an interest in this business but do not agree with the asking price please make an offer that you, as a buyer, would be comfortable with. If the seller is insulted by the offer, it is the broker's job to take the heat and still get you a counter offer. My father told me when I was 17 years old and he wanted me to collect confidential information, ?If you never ask, the answer is always NO.? So, please make any and all offers you wish.
If You Dont Ask
When you are in a relationship you need to know what you should ask and what you should keep to yourself. You may not know that when you are asking your partner something that you think is important, you may actually be insulting them and make a very large strain on the relationship as well. You need to be aware of these questions and keep them on the back burner as long as you can.

1. Do not ask your man what they are doing when they are not with you.

This question is sometimes not the right thing to ask. You may want to think about it first so that you can determine if it is going to the right question at that moment. You may not have to know where your partner is during every second that you are not with them. However, if you think that your partner is doing something that they are not, you should be a little bit suspicious so that you are not setting yourself up for a terrible failure.

2. Get to know your partner and what their personality is.

You should not drill your mate on different things that you think you just have to know. You should think about this before you decide to use your detective work. You do not want to ask your man the questions that are going to be insulting to them. You should first make sure that you have some kind of proof before you start to drill them and make them very uncomfortable with the conversation.

3. You have to know when to quit asking questions.

You should not drill a man until the point that they feel uncomfortable. You need to make sure that you are not being too pushy. If you are pushing them too much, you may find that you lose out on something that is so important to you.

4. Never drill a man about what they do with their other friends.

You should not make a man feel uncomfortable by asking them what they do on their down time with their other male friends. You need to let them have their space so that they are not feeling like you and all of your questions are invading them. You want them to be comfortable with you and have the knowledge that you can both go and have your own friends and have fun even when you are not around them.

5. Never embarrass your man by drilling them with questions when they are with their friends.

You do not want to get them upset and very mad by asking them things that are private and that you need to talk to them about in private. This is something that you need to do so that you are not risking an argument with your mate in front of their friends.

6. Never ask a man what they do when they are alone.

This is something that you may not want to know. It may be a little bit scary. You never know what you are going to hear and it may even be more than you want to know. Think carefully before you ask your questions because you may have to prepare yourself for what you find out.

7. There are different things that happen at work that you may not need to know.

You should not drill a man about what they are doing at work if they are not ready to let you know. You may want to know what you are going on to some point. However there are things that a man would rather keep to himself. You have to learn how to respect that and let them have their space just as you would appreciate to have your own.

This is something that you can do that also means that you are giving them respect that they deserve as well. You will find that when you allow them to have their space, you may even have a better relationship from having independence too.

Using good judgment to what you should know and what you should let go will help you have a better relationship with a man. I know that it may be hard but you have to do what will work best in your relationship and not seem too pushy at the same time. You would appreciate the same type of respect from him too.
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