This "detective work" involves a few easy to follow steps. Let's go over them step by step to be sure you can uncover the answers you are hoping to find.



The First Step

First of all, you'll need ten to fifteen minutes alone with your spouse's cellphone. Find a time when you are sure of having it to yourself, so you won't be caught in the act.

Try waiting until your spouse runs out on an errand, or perhaps when they have just stepped into the shower. This should give you enough time to do what you need to do.

When you have their cell phone, get a pen and paper.

Find the call history the "incoming" and "outgoing" call history lists. Write down every phone number on both lists. If there are numbers you recognize leave them off your list. Just be certain that you jot down each number that you aren't sure of.

After this, put back the phone and turn on your computer.

Step #2

When you have your completed list, you are going to "investigate" who owns of every number on the list.

A reverse phone look up can often give you much information about someone with only their phone number to work from. Name, address and more can be found about the owner of the phone in question.

These days many numbers are not to be found in the phone book - with the proliferation of cell phones and the growing number of people choosing to be unlisted, it can be hard to find out the information you are seeking.

Fortunately, there are businesses that fork over good money to have access to full records to cell phones and numbers that aren't in the phonebook. They then build databases that anyone can use.

There will be a small fee for using these website's databases, but it is very reasonable. It is well worth it as almost any number can be found through these databases, even unlisted and cell phone numbers.

If you have several mystery numbers to investigate, your best bet would be to use a site that charges a one time fee for unlimited use of their database. This way, you can use the company's search services any time you need to. You will almost certainly have more than one number to look up, and certainly do not want to pay each and every time you have a new number to look up.

At the bottom of this article, you'll find a link to a free sample search, so that you can see for yourself how this service works. It is astounding how much can be found out about a person from just their phone number.

Run a search on each unidentified phone number in your spouse's call history. Write down the results of these searches.

Step #3

Last of all, have a look through the names your searches have pulled up for you. Do you see anything suspicious here? In many cases, when cheating is suspected there is a specific person with whom you think your spouse may be fooling around. Do you see this person on your list of names?

Now you know exactly who your partner is speaking with on their phone. This will help you figure out if there is anything "funny" going on.

The beauty of this easy plan is that it lets you find out some important answers about your spouse. I hope you get the details you need and discover if you are in a relationship with someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.