You may think that once you've established yourself as an alpha male, dating will be simple and women will just flock to you everywhere you go. And while it is true that alpha personality types tend to attract more women, it's also true that it takes time and patience to learn to adopt these mannerisms and behaviors. Lets take a look at some common mistakes men make when learning to project an alpha male image.



First of all, being arrogant or pushy does not make you an alpha. The alpha male does not need to compete with, bully or intimidate other guys. These behaviors just scream "insecurity," and will make you look more like a desperate loser than an authentic alpha male.

Dating as an alpha male is not that dramatically different from any other dating. The core principle is the same; you need to look and act confident to win the girl, but even more importantly, you need to "feel" confident deep inside.

An insecure man feels the need to demonstrate his importance and superiority to other men. However, a truly confident man doesn't need to demonstrate anything; he is the real alpha male. Dating is easier for him because his confidence in himself makes women have confidence in him too.

Alpha male dating is not really complicated. When a man feels good about himself and comfortable in his own company, other people will too. Other men will not usually try to challenge the alpha, because they are either just "wanna be" alpha males or real alpha males themselves.

Real alpha males don't feel threatened by others and are therefore not likely to try to compete with you. Likewise, the "wanna bes" are usually insecure, and don't have the courage to try to intimidate someone who is really confident. Like all other bullies, the "wanna be" alpha males will only pick on guys that are weaker than they are.

Women don't choose men based on their ability to intimidate other men. Most women find it to extremely childish and off putting when a guy they are dating is acting like a jerk and treating other people with disrespect. This is one of the reasons why most women choose the alpha male. Dating is much more enjoyable because he is poised, relaxed and attentive. He is not out to show off his date to other men, but to have fun and enjoy his date's company. He doesn't spend the date rustling his feathers, or showing off, but rather concentrating on his date. He doesn't care if the guy next to him has more money or better looks; the alpha male truly likes who he is and is not easily intimidated.

In our modern society, there is no one type of alpha male, there are many. Women don't date these men primarily for their looks, power or money, but for the way these men make them feel. These men make the women they are with feel special, and comfortable; when a man lets down his guard and is just being himself, he allows the woman to do the same. They don't need to jump through hoops or play silly games. He is out to get to know the women and to enjoy himself; that's what alpha male dating is about.