The 21st Century Single Mom is not perfect. However, she has mastered the technique of sharing her emotions in healthy ways. She is an encourager to her children by allowing them to observe and learn how to do the same. She supports her children in their lives, but, most importantly she has a life of
her own.
One of the biggest mistakes single Moms make is not forgiving themselves for the inherent struggles of single parenting and making their children the center and focus of their lives. It is unhealthy for the children and the
parent.
The 21st Century Single Mom follows her words with consistent actions. She commands respect by giving respect. She is firm and holds her children accountable for their actions. She inspires them because she is inspired by life and the growth she sees in her children. She doles out more and more
challenging responsibilities so her children can grow to become healthy
adults. She is confident and honest, letting her children see the rewards from adopting this character.
Here are five actions you can take today for a more invigorating lifestyle that leaves time for you to enjoy life with your children and have hope for their future on the road to becoming an adult.
1. Allow your children to share with you what’s on their mind. Become
involved in the things they enjoy doing. Ask questions about the things that interest them.
2. Teach your children to tap you gently on the shoulder while you are
engaged in conversation with others, should they have a desire to interrupt with a question or concern. This teaches patience without a sense of urgency at all times.
3. Play games with them whenever possible. Through role playing important lessons can be taught in a fun atmosphere.
4. Join the child on their level. Lower yourself physically to a child’s level by sitting or bending down. Imagine how intimidating it would be if everyone in your world were taller or larger than you.
5. Always take time to interact with your children. Sacrifice the time, even if there is a room filled with adults. You would be amazed how much you enjoy their innocence and unpretentiousness.
Whether you’ve become a single mom by choice or due to circumstances, realize there will be moments when your whole world is upside down. But you always have a choice. Go ahead and cry for a minute. Then figure out how this setback can be turned into an opportunity.
If you want to inspire your children to greatness, you must dare to be great yourself. If you want them to develop the skills to enjoy lives full of fun, joy, accomplishment, with an ability to overcome life’s challenges that present opportunities and rewards, then you must make your own life an
example.
On The 21st Century
Where do you go if you have a problem with your satellite television or broadband service provider? Whom do you call if your have a problem with your computer's installation system or if your printer just died on you before a major presentation? Who is the one person who can quickly help you stop that whining noise and smoke that your lap top is generating right in the middle of the conference call you are having with your boss? If you are like me, the auto dial function on your telephone will have the number of your friendly global help desk! According to me, the help desk is the best invention of man in the twenty first century. The computer and all the electronic gadgets are over hyped. Technology changes much before it becomes affordable in the first place. And gadgets and gizmos are flooding the marketplace like never before. If there is anything at all that has remained consistent through all the tumult, it has been the ubiquitous help desk.
Its only over the last 10 years that the Help Desk, as we know it today, has become an important component in the corporation. Before that time corporations were not geared up to offer a streamlined customer service. Customers would have to struggle through detailed instruction unaided, or make numerous calls to the ?Customer Service? Department.
The concept of the help desk started off as a service offering, provided by makers of new IT products and services to clients, who were still unfamiliar with the new age technology. But as users have gotten more savvy, the products and services too have become even more complex. Which makes the role of the help desk even more important. Take Windows itself. This simple operating system started off as Windows 1.0. It grew over the years to become Windows 3.0, Windows 3.1, Windows 95, 97, 2000 and now XP. Obviously, each new version has seen the features increase. And each passing year has seen more users start taking up desktop computing as a real option.
This has only meant more work for the people at the Microsoft help desk. As the versions increased and the features expanded, the conventional help desk too expanded to become much more than a mere service offering. Software products and services almost being on par made the quality of the after sales service a critical component in the competitive marketplace. And the help desk, being at the forefront of this arena, has had to adapt and evolve.
So, the typical help desk of today is staffed not just with people who can familiarize you with products and their features, but also specialist engineers and technicians who can troubleshoot your problems and provide you with the correct solution, often within the duration of a simple telephone call. And since the business demands skilled professionals who come with an innate understanding of technology, better prospects have emerged for IT professionals.
In fact, in keeping with the global outsourcing trend, most help desk jobs have moved to countries like India and China where there is no shortage of skilled manpower, and the quality of the professionals is assured. The beneficial cost structures have also contributed to this trend. For like I mentioned earlier, the products may evolve and newer versions may come up. But unless the help desk remains an integral part of the service offering, there will be no exponential increase of market share.
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