"Give me your number." It's the most straightforward way, and it works. After you've been talking to her a while, or when she announces she has to leave, whip out your cell phone and say the simple four words, "Give me your number."
To put this tactic on steroids, do it this way: Ask her a question, let her start talking, and then take your cell phone out and say "One sec, I have a text message." She will stop in mid-sentence, and be stuck in her next thought. Then say, "Give me your number silly," while still looking at your phone. She will be still stuck in her moment, that she'll just give you her number right there. (Mehow came up with this.)
2) Don't ask, make her suggest it.
Another powerful way to get her number is to say, "This was a blast, how can we continue this?" You can also say, "We should hang out sometime, how can I get a hold of you?" If you've built up some real comfort and attraction (and have talked for at least 10 minutes), she will say "Take my number!" and it was all her idea. If you did not talk to her long enough or establish enough rapport, she'll say you can catch her in the same place another time. If this happens, it's over, don't try to persuade her. If she won't volunteer her number after your bait, she wouldn't have returned your calls anyway.
3) Set a date right there
This is easily the best way to get a solid number in which you will hear from her again. Known as the "time bridge," if you make solid plans with a woman you've just met, the phone number will be an after thought. If she's gonna see you again anyway, there's no reason not to give you the number.
When you make a time bridge, it can't be for something mundane like coffee or going to dinner. It has to be something fairly unique, like going to a cove where the seals swim, costume dinner party, or an 80's karaoke bar. Keep in mind you don't actually have to take her to any of these places, but it's great bait to get her number. Once you have her on the phone, you can switch to taking her to dinner or coffee instead.
While it feels really important, getting the number is just a step in the dating interaction. Whether you want to get a woman in bed, or make her a girlfriend, you now have the tactics to get a solid number that leads to a woman calling back and showing up on dates. Now how long should you wait to call? That's another question we'll have an answer to soon, so check back.
Ways To Get Her Back
1. Write it in lemon juice on paper. It disappears until warmed. You can say "Look, there's something written here"....heat it over a candle and "Presto", instant proposal
2. Do it at half-time, on-field, at a sporting event/theatre
3. In disguise wearing a costume that means something to you both
4. Get her to find the ring embedded in a favourite meal
5. Have the ring delivered by an express mail service at your table in a restaurant.
6. Have the ring delivered by her favourite celeb (might be costly, but most celebs are up for a photo opportunity )
7. If you have enough advance warning, get an author to write your proposal cunningly into a book you can buy, and be beside her as she reads it.
8. In weightless conditions
9. Record yourself proposing on video and get it spliced into the latest blockbuster movie on video/DVD, then snuggle up together to watch.
10. Find a tech buddy that can send interrupts to your TV signal or radio and do some creative splicing to propose "live" on TV
11. Get your proposal made into a -very- difficult jigsaw so that the message only becomes clear slowly as you both do it.
12. Get the ring embedded in a bottle of her favourite drink, in such a way that she can't miss it, and will have to break the bottle to get at it.
13. If she reads the comics, get a frame put in the comic with your proposal (can be done with most WP/magazine design/printers with perseverance)
14. Depending on your sense of humour/disgust level, have it turn up in, say, the cat litter, the dog's "doings" (I know it's gross, but it might ring some folks bells )
15. If you've got a pet that "fetches" things, get it to fetch the ring to her.
16. Slip the rung on her finger while she is sleeping then wait for her to notice
17. If you've got a year to spare, get a floral display or tree plantation made up to say "Marry Me?" that she'll see when you take her on a trip.
18. Drastic I know, but get a tattoo (or a false one) and unveil it slowly.
19. "Stage" something spectacular in your home - a police raid or SWAT raid or some such, and get them to give her the ring.
20. "Stage" yourself being a romantic hero, saving a fluffy bunny or something she loves a lot, and have the ring attached to the thing you save when you give it back to her.
21. Take her to a labyrinth or maze (or build one yourself!) and have it lead to the ring.
22. Sign up for a "Murder Mystery" weekend, and have the ring turn up at the denoument (The club you visit for the weekend will probably love to do it. This applies to other "Role-Playing" companies as well.)
23. Go to a "Vegas" style cabaret, and get the magician to produce the ring from her ear or some such place.
24. Write it in a song, or get it written in a song, and get it sung to her by someone famous (or do it yourself --- it worked for me!)
25. Further to number 16, take a picture of her wearing it while she's asleep, then take it off. Later, show her the picture and say "What's that on your finger?"
26. Have the ring delivered by carrier pigeon.
27. Have her boss call her into his office for a "dressing down", only to find you there with the ring.
28. Again, depending on your humour, hide in the ladies toilet in her place of work (best let the other women in on the deal) and surprise her. She won't forget it in a hurry.
29. Have it delivered by a man in a hot air balloon/ parachutist/hang glider
30. Get the ring embedded in a bar of soap and wait for it to emerge.
31. If she's into animals, visit a sanctuary/zoo, and persuade the keepers to have her "find" the ring on her favourite animal
32. Do it online...set up a web page that asks the question, and make sure it's her start up page at logon when you want the question asked.
33. Get a headline/front page of her daily paper for the right day made up and substitute it for the real one on the day.
34. Get it done at a staged semaphore/morse code/sign language/foreign language demonstration in such a way that she'll have to ask for a translation
35. Get it sewn in to handkerchief then arrange a drinks spillage after which you give her the handkerchief.
36. Go for a drive/walk/hike, get lost, and be given the ring by someone you just happen to stop to ask for directions.
37. At a fishing port or hunting lodge etc., have the ring be taken out a catch or kill. Again, gruesome I know, but someone will love it.
38. Similar to 36, get someone to pose as a tourist asking for directions, and, as he says "thank you", he also says "Oh, I believe this is for you" and gives her the ring.
39. Another gross one, get a joke shop "vomit" kit, pretend to throw up, and find the ring in it. Someone will go for it.
40. If you have any piercings, have the ring dangle from one.
41. Bake her a birthday/surprise cake, and have the ring inside
42. Attach it to her key-ring/key-chain/car-keys and wait till she notices.
43. Get a green-keeper at your local park/golf course to cut the message in the lawn/fairway/hillside etc
44. Alternatively, do some creative topiary on a large hedge to spell out the message
45. Spell out the message in glass marbles under water in her washbowl/bath/swimming pool
46. Spell it out in large stones on a beach that can only be seen when you take her on a helicopter ride.
47. Get it done in a firework sign on the top of a building etc at a social occasion.
48. Under water, wearing scuba gear
49. Record the message and get someone to send it to her mobile while you're with her.
50. Get her boss to send her to a meeting, where it's you, and the ring.
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