“Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn,” always bear this in mind if you do not want to be at the receiving end of a lashing out of a woman. Like all men would agree, a woman's mind is as unfathomable as the deepest end of the black hole. No one can rightly guess what his spouse is thinking all the time and this often leads to misunderstanding in a relationship.



This is where the truth hits real hard, there is NO WAY you are able to fully understand your spouse a hundred percent. You have to get this clear to your head in order to have a great and successful relationship!

Here is a list of what do women find attractive, generally:

#1 Much to the shock of most guys, spending on an expensive suit and a nice piece of shirt may not necessarily cause the woman of your dreams to fall head over heels over your dashing image. The main reason is because women can be impressed by a well-dressed man, but are not that stupid to understand to not judge a book by its cover.

Do not be surprised when you see your date running off with the man in tights because what wins a woman's heart is ultimately a person's character. On the other hand, being gentlemanly may have its good points, but over-doing it may irk some ladies so remember! Keep a balance, and don't venture to either extremes when chasing after the girl of your dreams.

#2 Don't be a wishy-washy person! Make up your mind and stick to it! Even though sometimes the decisions you make may upset her, ironically it actually pleases her to know that you know yourself and that you have a mind of your own. Girls like decisive guys who can make decisions for them.

Having your own set of principles and comments make you unique to her and sets you apart from everyone else who agrees with her just to appease her. However, once again, keep a healthy balance. Do not go overboard when ranting over your own principles as she will find it nothing more than your ego talking. Don't turn from a man with his own decisions into a male chauvinist pig.

#3 Attention! In the army, how beat you are at the end of the day does not matter if your sergeant is still talking. You still have to give your utmost attention to him as he speaks. Similarly, for women, be sure to listen to her when she comes to you with her problems.

Yes, you may have problems up to your eyeballs at work but what beats a good hug and a good listening ear from you you're your wife needs one. Give her the attention she needs and hug and kiss her to make her know that she is still the top priority in your life.

#4 What a woman finds that is so attractive in a man is his ability to show his care and love for her. Sometimes she may poke fun at you by telling you how some other guy at work is trying to hit on her. How should you react then? Although she may know that a crush is nothing serious, but she still likes the idea of a caring boyfriend who gets jealous at times.

#5 Do your part for the household chores! Sometimes women just love to be pampered by their husbands and be like a queen in her castle. She may nag at you when you forget to pick up the clothes from the dry cleaner's or complain about how crumpled your shirt is. But sometimes helping her in doing these small little things makes her feel good and more attracted to you. She does not want to be your mum, but at the same time she wants to feel important.

Now that you discovered more about the secret side to a woman's heart and mind, it is time to give yourself a little change and adapt to a new lifestyle. You will be charmer in to time!