Every guy wants to know what women want. How else are we supposed to be able to get there if we don't ever get the road map? However, it just isn't that simple. Women are different. Many women want one thing while other women want an entirely different picture. So the real question turns into, 'What does your woman want?'
Whether you are casually dating, in a long term committed relationship, or experiencing one of the hottest sexual flings in your personal history, determining what your woman wants is part of making your experiences with women successful and fulfilling. Otherwise you may as well go down to the batting cages and release your frustration on a few fast pitches.
The best part about women, is that they do actually tell you what they want. The most frustrating part about women is that they don't tell us in language we can understand. Sometimes a guy can be pretty dense and a woman who gently nudges might not get her needs met unless we can become more perceptive and start receiving their language better.
Here's a clue. When you and yours are in the midst of a little foreplay and she nudges you gently or lifts her hips, that is a request, guys. When a women is walking back and forth waiting for you to wrap it up on the phone with your ex (talking about the kids is okay, talking about other stuff really ought to wait) that is also a request. When a woman shrugs and tells you it's fine, that is not permission to go but an invitation to find out how she really feels. These things are confusing to a guy, especially when all he wants is a straightforward answer to a question.
Women want the same things that guys want. They want to be respected, they want to be honored and loved, and they don't ever want to feel as though they have to sacrifice something in them in order to be with a guy, whether for a night or a lifetime. As great as it is that we all pretty much want the same things, it can be really hard to understand what women don't just ask for what they need. The answer is pretty plain and simple. Just as guys have been taught that some things are not okay, so have women. Women aren't intentionally confusing, they were simply never taught that it's okay to ask for what they want.
Women spend just as much time, if not more, unraveling the mysteries that they were taught growing up. What it means to be a woman changes as fast as what it means to be a man. A guy that can learn to read women well, and realize that they have to look past the basic outer layer, is going to have women lined up around the block. Any time a guy can learn how to be directed by a woman without inflicting their own opinion about how one should ask for things he has scored huge.
The more time you spend around women, deciphering their codes and learning their quietly directive language, the better you will become at learning the secret code of womanly requests. It's not that hard once you stop trying to listen for the way you would ask for things.
What Does A Woman Want
Guys, listen up! You want to buy the perfect gift for someone you love but there's no time to decide. The time quickly ticks away and before you know it the special day is upon you and the pressure is mounting. A lot of men have experienced that last minute panic and have resorted to finding the closest place to buy a bottle of something that smells just like expensive perfume. It's not that tough to figure out the perfect gift.
Many women are very practical and are not only interested in expensive gifts. Think of an item she'll use in her everyday activities. Now I'm not suggesting you run down to the local convenience store and pick her up a 6 pack of deodorant. If you just sit down and think about the woman you are trying to buy for, the gift ideas will start to come to you.
What does your lady enjoy doing? Perhaps a cordless headset for her cell phone or a subscription to an audio book website would be just right.
There are many ladies that love sports as much as men. Which sport does she love best? A pair of roller blades or a tennis racket might fit the bill.
How does she spend her days? Surely, she'd enjoy her own personal 4 cup coffee maker with a collection of gourmet coffee, a digital photo frame, or a sweater to keep her warm when the office gets a bit too cold. By giving her the things that she needs to keep her day bright and cheerful, you can be sure she will be thinking of you.
Does she like to dress up? Where winter is king, give her a fleece pullover with a fashionable pair of boots. And, no matter where you live a stylish watch is always a hit.
Is she a car buff? The practical woman loves a car organizer to keep everything she needs at her fingertips. Perhaps a new stereo, amplifier, set of speakers, or an In-Dash DVD player would rev her up.
Women don't always show their practical side. However, they can be just as easy to please. For the romantic woman in your life, focus your attention on art and culture. For the adventurous woman, focus on the outdoors, travel and leisure.
Does your lovely lady enjoy music, reading or playing guitar? If so, you could get her something she wasn't expecting like that new instrument she's been talking about learning, an audio book she can listen to at the gym, or tickets for the next show of one her favorite groups. The 2nd concert ticket would be for her to take one of her friends.
Could your adventure loving woman use new ski gloves, a snow board, digital camera with all the accessories, a new rack to hold her bicycle on the car, or airfare to an action-packed destination she's been mentioning? Maybe a navigation system for her car, a new waterproof watch, a citywide treasure hunt is fun, or how about just a day off from anything she doesn't love to do? Don't forget, some of the best gifts are ones that she can't hold in her hands.
Even though women have the prerogative to change their minds about the things they like, those that love flowers always love flowers. Practical women want practical things. Romantic women will always hope for whatever looks and feels good. The adventurer in your life will forever be looking for a way to push the limit. What's worked before to make her happy will work again. She'll know she's loved when you match the gift to the personality -- and that will tell her how you really feel.
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