Do you have a son or daughter who has problems with math? Maybe it is a fourth grader who resorts to slowly counting on his fingers while his friends long ago memorized their lists of addition and subtraction problems. Or perhaps your daughter refuses to master all those "boring" multiplication tables. Maybe the confusing steps of long division problems are giving them fits. Sometimes, the procedures for the equations they are being taught is foreign to today's parents.
For whatever reason, math seems to be extremely difficult for some students, and parents feel terrible in the face of their children's sense of failure. Too often fights erupt over homework, and there seems to be no chance of success in sight. Math is a battleground in lots of families.
Whatever the cause, math skills can frequently be improved by turning what can be dull into a fun game. Math games exist for kids of every age-there are even preschool games to introduce number recognition. Chances are, your children already love to play video games. They play games online, games on PC, games on handheld devices, and games on any number of popular consoles.
So why not make use of this format to teach your child the math skills he or she needs to advance in the classroom? Math games make learning exciting, so the same kids who cringe at rote memorization will willingly spend the time it takes to addition problems on the computer. A math game appeals to their sense of fun; it is challenging in a pleasant way, not a mind-numbingly boring way.
Math skills are too important to let slide. These tools will serve your children for life, and missing out means degradation and struggle. Why helplessly watch your children fail when there are many paths to success in the school?
A Path To Success
How often do we get in the way of our own success? Often we map out a strategy and goal chart and then set sail on an unknown ocean in order to achieve that which we truly desire, only to end up crashing into the reefs. ?The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry.? By Robert Burns often comes to mind.
Why is that the plans we so carefully charted out on our passageway to success so often seem to fail? There are many factors, not the least of which can be luck or being in the wrong place at the wrong time. However, there are deeper factors that control our circumstances hidden within our sub-conscious mind.
I am sure you have often heard how the sub-conscious thoughts we think can control what happens to us and that we need to ?visualize? what we want in order to obtain ?it.? Name it and claim it so to speak. While I have always put stock in visualization, I haven't put a lot of effort into it myself until I began to research the RAS otherwise known as the Reticular Activating System of the brain.
What is the Reticular Activating System of the brain? It's a complex nexus of nerves at the base of your brain. The RAS gives your brain the ability to sort through all the information around you, allowing you the capability to index data that is being thrown at you in order of importance or relevance. In other words, the RAS tells you what should pay attention to and what you should ignore.
Let me give you a simple example of an every day occurrence of RAS in your daily life. Let's say today you went out to purchase a new gold Ford Excursion. On your way to an important business meeting regarding your music, you begin to notice a lot of gold Excursions on the road when you hadn't before. Was there suddenly a huge special on gold Excursions and now there are hundreds more driving on the road? Probably not.
Most likely the cars were there all along, it's just your RAS fast at work. Your Reticular Activating System has now indexed the gold Ford Excursion as an important factor in your life, causing you to recognize it at nearly every occurrence. Your RAS is constantly working in both your personal and your professional life, indexing the beliefs you have deemed in your personal value system as important and those that you deem as unobtainable.
Let me give you another example. All your life you have dreamed of becoming the happening musician on the planet, but you have constantly heard how impossible that task is and you subconsciously bought into that belief. Externally, or in your conscious mind you make your plans and work hard to achieve your desired goal.
Did you know that your conscious mind only controls 17% of what you actually do? The other 83% is handled by your subconscious mind. Look at those figures. 17% of your conscious thoughts and actions are now going to handle your path to success, while the other 83%, the part that believes you will fail, will control the rest of your path to success. If you are counting on your conscious mind to control your life, without reprogramming your subconscious mind, you are fighting a losing battle. Remember, ??best laid plans of mice and men.?
So how do you change the viscous cycle that seems to waylay your life and your aspirations of a successful music career or success in anything for that matter? You need to learn to utilize your RAS at will. If you learn to do so, you will tap into an incredible resource of authority and resourcefulness that will help you succeed where you have otherwise failed in the past.
In order to begin your training, you will have to do a few things to help yourself.
?You must become 100%, absolutely sure, without a doubt, crystal clear about your wants, goals, needs and desires.
?Next'it is vitally important that you down your goals, plans, dreams and desires as well as what you will do to obtain them. I know you have heard this a million times, so I have. This time you must do it!
?Go over the list and read it allowed to yourself at least three to four times a day. Sounds stupid, but you MUST do it! Don't get in the way of yourself! Somewhere in your subconscious mind is programmed a belief that says this is a stupid exercise and it won't really work. So you say to yourself you will either put it off until later or you believe that if you just read this statement, you'll get it. You won't. You have to follow it! Be proactive and do it!
?This next part is also very important, although you may feel silly doing it. Tell your subconscious mind that this list is very important to you and command it to find a way for you to accomplish all the tasks you listed. Say it allowed at least two to three times a day (more if you want). Again, get out of the way of yourself and your past belief system and let your brain and RAS do the job you want it to!
Once you do this, you will begin to find new ideas and beliefs that will come into your belief system. It is important to write these down as you will find a lot of real jewels among them. This is just a start in your path to success and changing your belief patterns about success. Are you still sitting here reading? Come on?get on with it!
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