"I or we’ve both been married before, so the proposal is no big deal -right?" I don’t know if I can totally agree with you there. Both my wife and I were married before and that was EXACTLY why I did make a bigger deal about it. I learned a lot from my first relationship, as you probably have, and one of the things is that you have to let your new mate know just how much more special they are to you. Though your or their previous marriage was not successful, you can take this opportunity to show just the difference that this relationship will mean to you and your mate. What better place to solidify this difference than in the proposal that is the first step of the commitment of spending the rest of your lives together? This is a perfect chance to do better than you did in your previous proposal or show her just how much better of a proposal she will get from you than her previous mate. I am not encouraging you to try to outdo her previous mate; I believe that it will be a natural byproduct of you approaching it with our T.I.P. For those unaware, the T.I.P. is Thoughtfulness, Intimate, and Planned. This method will focus your efforts on creating a proposal that will be just what you two need to separate yourselves from your past relationships and begin on the path to your future together.When you don’t underestimate the proposal and its significance, your mate will truly appreciate it. No matter your ages, everyone looks to be special and appreciated. Your serious approach at making the proposal meaningful on your second time around will be welcomed by your mate and looked upon fondly in your years together. Do you honestly think that it could do harm? Of course not, so go ahead and make it memorable. This should be your last chance to do it! J