Building a relationship is not an easy task. Finding the perfect partner and soul mate is not easy. Many people take months and years to find the perfect partner that they want to spend the rest of their lives with. When a relationship fails, or there is an argument, it is not uncommon for both parties to be upset and hurt.
Though none of them will admit that they are feeling sad, the fact remains that both of them do feel bad about the whole episode and they would love to have a break up recovery. Before they go about trying to recover back what has been lost, they need to find out the cause behind the break up. Once this has been determined then only can the path to recovery be taken.
Experts agree that breakups are caused by two things: (1) an over-sized ego and (2) poor communication. Hind sight is always better than foresight. And when you look back at it, you see what you could have done differently that your current situation could have been avoided. Petty fights and arguments should not cause a couple to break up, however, there are many relationships that fail just because of that reason.
If you honestly have regrets and really miss being together, then you absolutely need to start looking at why you broke up. Its the break up recovery phase thats next. It doesn't hurt to ask your partner what they are feeling. It might very well turn out that they are sorry. And they may very well be afraid to admit it, or not know how to say it.
Ego plays a big part in staging such recoveries and if you are interested in patching up, you will have to forsake your ego. If not, then both of you will be left high and dry, waiting for the other to say `sorry'. Just ask yourself if it is so tough to say 'sorry' if that single word can help bring back both of you together.
Find yourselves a nice quiet place where you can openly talk with each other. A secluded venue may be the best place to let go of your shyness and patch up with a partner rather than a in a public place. The only thing you're going to need is the courage and confidence to say just a single word.
When one makes plans that include producing a break up recovery, do you think that is asking too much? You are guaranteed to come out on top if you have the courage to speak from your heart. Never hesitate to say you are sorry. It will be difficult to lay a bridge amongst them in case the longer you wait, the tougher will it become to say this sacred word and after a certain period of time the chasm between you two so wide.
Break Up Get Back Together
A friend of mine recently signed up a lease renewal with his tenant. It is a property out of state and he just received some interesting news today.
Due to financial reasons, the tenant claimed she was unable to continue with the renewal lease she had just signed up a week ago. The tenant has given notice to break out of the lease by the next month and this is the lease that was just signed last month. If she had known she has financial problems, then why did she even bother signing the lease renewal? These events leading up to the termination of the lease appeared very abrupt and unnatural.
This is a commercial lease for a salon that has a 3 year term on it. All the signatures were on the final draft of the lease renewal. Here is the interesting piece to it. The property manager who is managing the unit indicates that he heard "through the grape vines" that the tenant was looking at another place down the street. However, she probably found it one week too late since she had just signed the lease renewal for 3 more years. Therefore, I would think she is now trying to come up with an excuse to get out of the current lease.
The property manager was notified of the termination of the lease via email. The name of the tenant on the lease is an LLC and not her personal name since she is operating under the business name.
How many options does the owner of the building have? Can they pursue this and get a judgment and go after the tenant personally to recoup the loss damages since she plans on vacating the unit by the end of the next month? What would you do if you were in this situation or do you know of someone who has gone through this?
State landlord-tenant laws would confirm that the tenants are responsible for the rents and the advertising expenses that accumulate during the period of vacancy caused by the tenant’s untimely departure. In the meantime, do some investigation and find out the real reason why the tenant has suddenly decided to terminate the lease. Let the tenant know that they can break the lease, but they are responsible for the rent until new tenants are found and start paying rent. Furthermore, since it appears evident that the tenant is set on moving out no matter what the consequences, then immediately begin marketing the property again.
It is at times like this where having a security deposit collected comes in handy since you can deduct the expenses incurred by the owner from the security deposit. If it gets to the point, then proceed with filing a small claims case or a lawsuit against the tenant to recover the costs of the lost rents. When entering into any contracts, all parties are aware there are strict rules to adhere to and when either party does not live up to their side of the agreement, then there are consequences.
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