Dating Site can be compared with a baker's and confectioner's. Why so? In the same manner as you see a delicious cake and decide if you will eat it a site gives an impression to the site visitors. These are profiles that make a dating site so delicious. There are so many examples but is so difficult to create your own successful dating profile. There are a few important concepts to remember.



No one even keeps the fact that pictures are the first thing anyone ever looks at in a dating profile. What people have written comes second. Will someone contest this opinion?

Successful picture lets you stand out of the enormous number of profiles at the dating site. Remember this is truly a "first impression" and you get only one chance. No doubt that your standards should be as HIGH as possible! Critical eye is so important when selecting any images to put into the site. Make sure that the pictures you show have the ability to amaze those potential visitors who will see you. Successful picture literally makes users slobber. Who never dreamt about that?

Of course, you can be a really foxy in a real life but if your profile is shabby the users - potential admirers will remember the worst of you. Just throw away bad pictures and leave only those ones that really reflect your personality in the most terrific manner. I would advise you taking two good photos of you - a headshot and a full length shot to show your ability to portray different characters, age ranges and importantly personality!

One more point to consider: not just photos attract users. One of our clients shared his opinion with me and you know I completely agree with him: "I'm always on search for the perfect profile - one that has a picture and killer essay attached. I know that there's no such thing as a perfect person, but I do think you can find a perfect profile."

Learn to write a successful notice, i.e. dating welcoming message. Creating a profile is more a psychological work than just automatic throwing your ideas without much thought. Examples would be of great help for you. Do not be lazy to spend some time viewing other profiles before posting.

Statistics show that too much of a good thing, is not a good thing! Avoid text that is too lengthy and multiple photographs of the same activity. Be short-spoken and vivid in your words. Say the most you can with as little as possible. Focus on highlights and advantages instead of tedious details. Do not open all your details and remember secrets always attract more than openness.

Any comments? It would be great to discuss them with you.

Marina Zhilenkova