He may then pause, lean back, look her body up and down once playfully, and say “Hi.”



When you do this to a woman you are communicating. You are not just communicating with her verbally but you are also sending signals of a dominant male and one of these is confidence.

So when it comes to communicating with women you must project confidence.

This confidence should be carried forward even when it comes to making a move or advancing the relationship, DON'T ASK!

A few months ago i was watching the Bachelorette and in that particular episode there was this guy who the lady in THE BACHELORETTE fancied and she was out with him on a date.

So the evening goes well, although i sometimes get the feeling that some of these guy usually don't have a clue about what to do in certain situations with women.

But what was working for this guy was the fact that this lady kinda liked him.

So what does he do as the evening progresses?

Well like most guys who have no clue, he reaches a point where he feels that he has to do something. But what's a fellow to do? If he tries to kiss her, she might reject him. If he doesn't he will not be considered a man. So what does he do?

He asks the woman if he can kiss her!

And the lady turned him down.

As a man, you need to be assertive and stay in control. For every question you could ask, you can be assertive and use a statement instead.

Examples:

“What's your home phone number?”

…should be

“Let's exchange numbers so we can go get that cup of coffee.”

(If you prefer not to “exchange” numbers, then tell her to give it to you.)

“Can you go out this weekend?”

“Do you want to go ice skating?”

…should be

“Hey, let's go ice skating this Thursday or Friday.”

In short, every “can you” and “do you want to” and “I was wondering if you” needs to be abolished from your vocabulary! Make statements - don't ask questions.

What is the point of this tip?

It's so you can get used to being assertive. Simple changes in words have a powerful effect — and not only does it affect those you speak to, but it helps you understand where the control lies. It lies with you.

And you'll get turned down a lot less.

Guaranteed!

Women like a man who can take the lead. It's important for a man to take the lead. If you do you are communicating with a woman that you are a man and there is something powerful and attractive to women about men.

This is actually what makes the difference between attraction and indifference.