As a parent, these are only a few of the many questions and concerns you have when moving your family. Not only do you have yourself to think about regarding work, friends, health and wellness, you also have children who are relying on you to make the transition to their new community as easy as possible.
If you're a shy person, or not terribly great at networking or striking up conversations with strangers on your street, the thought of trying to find the answers to your questions can be daunting. Ten or twenty years ago, unless you were the outgoing type, chances are it would take you a long time to get your bearings in a new place, but thanks to the internet, everything has changed. Now, as long as you have some basic search engine skills, you can find out where the best schools and daycares are months before you ever actually move. In addition, you can also meet local parents who have kids of the same age, in the same community, who are often more than happy to provide you with great advice on the best and the worst of the area.
Increasingly, communities, associations, and individuals are creating local websites with forums and blogs (online journals or web logs) and news where you can quickly and easily find out the in's and out's of your new home. You can use any search engine, but you'll probably find that Google (google.com) gets you better results, especially if you're moving to a remote location. If you're not familiar with the Internet and search engines, contact your local library or town information line to find out where the closest free introductory class is located. Most of these classes are only a few hours long and will give you a great start to getting online.
When starting your search, try a wide search and then narrow it down, this is especially useful if you're moving to a small city or town because there will be less information for that region on the web. If, however, you're making a move to New York, or Toronto, you will need to narrow your search earlier on. For example, if you're moving to Buffalo, New York, and you want to find out what sports activities exist for kids, start your search with ?Buffalo Kids Sports? and make sure you scan through at least the first five pages of search results because many times there are real gems out there that don't always show up on the first few pages. If you want to find forums to meet parents, try ?parenting forums Buffalo?, or if you want to read some blogs from local parents, try searching for ?parenting blogs Buffalo?. If the community that you're moving to has a specific name, like Glenora, then simply add that to your search. You'll soon find that regardless of where you're moving, there is already at least some sort of small online parenting community out there that is just waiting for you to join.
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Educational Packing
Hiring your moving company to do the packing for you allows more time to pack with your kids, showing them the different packing options. This is a great opportunity to use as an educational experience.
If your long distance moving company will not be doing the packing for you, you should allow more time for the process and ask your children to help. By having them pack just a few of their toys, they can be more involved in the moving experience.
Some children may be too young to pack valuables, so ask them to pack unbreakable items such as linens, towels, and clothes. This will allow you more time to pack instead of spending it monitoring your kid’s packing.
Your more mature children may be interested in helping to disassemble furniture and other items. It would be wise, however, to stay close by and monitor their progress.
Moving Yourself
Some people choose to do the moving process themselves, and if you are one of them, get your older children to help you carry items and load the truck. Your younger children can assist by carrying the smaller items.
Do Not Force Them
Your child may not wish to take part in the moving process, so don't force them to do so. Keep in mind that for some children this process is not only physically hard, but emotionally hard as well. It’s better to allow them to do another activity than to have a “meltdown." You might want to consider asking your friends or family to spend some time with your child, so you can focus on working with the movers.
Making it Fun
This day may be long and hard for you, but for your kids it is an unusual experience. Try to have a bit of fun with your children and keep the day light and non-stressful.
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