The causes of the fear of public speaking may be simply something experienced in a minor incident at school or something more severe, but generally public speaking in its mildest form is known as stage fright, a normal and natural fearful emotion. In fact, negative feelings are there to protect us from harm, letting us know if something is not quite as it seems and pushing us to take decisive action to get out of the situation to avoid possible danger or worse.
It cannot be emphasized enough that when our body signals a fear response, our brain interprets this as impending danger. The majority of our fears are in fact learned and not pre-programmed into our brains, and these learned fears are vital to our survival. However, there are times when these fears are not as reliable as we are led to believe. In the case of the fear of public speaking, this is usually almost always the case.
The causes of the fear of public speaking can come under some obvious categories, including traumatic experiences, a related traumatic experience, a gradually building fear, and a learned fear from others. When we experience traumatic things, we are left very fearful and stressed to the point of having this fear permanently etched in our brains. For example, if a child was bitten by a rabid dog and the intensity of the pain, combined with a foaming and ferocious aggressive growling from the animal was so traumatic that the fear was permanently written into the child's brain, the child's nervous system quickly learned to associate this incident and anything related to it with that fear.
In the case of a traumatic experience, the fear of public speaking may have nothing to do with our need to perform or do a presentation in front of other people. People can get this when they are very stressed by something totally unrelated and somehow it gets mixed up with the job ahead of them.
When a person has experienced a related traumatic event, the person does not initially feel fear and instead associates this with someone else, whether in a real life situation or very rarely a dream or movie. For example, a soldier can fight an entire war and never experience any disturbances beyond the norm and then years after returning to a normal life, suddenly starts experiencing fear as he performs in front of other people, without any particular known reason at the time. He associates fear in war to his comrades versus himself.
A gradually building fear can lead to a fear of public speaking later on in life. This usually begins as a mild incident that is gradually added to by further fearful incidents, and in turn the nervous system evaluates each event as a definite fear that should be guarded against and with more and more related fears being added on, it builds its defenses to compensate, getting gradually more and more strong. As a result, a sudden attack of a fear of public speaking results, sometimes an extreme one, and it can take the person by complete surprise.
Interestingly enough a fear of public speaking can also come out of the most harmless events. These events may have begun as a baby or a child, but somewhere along the line something got confused and the brain read these fears as a major threat.
The final possible cause of a fear of public speaking stems from what has been learned from others. It is very rare, but in some cases where a person has experienced a traumatic enough experience, the therapist themselves can unknowingly be traumatized by the information they have to analyze and can in turn suddenly, without reason, fall victim to a fear of public speaking.
Irregardless of whether the fear of public speaking happens during a business presentation or on the stage of a Broadway musical, the fears are rooted in the same common places. This form of social phobia is so common that most people turn a blind eye to it and dub it as stage fright. Most of us would not question state fright as a logical explanation because we just seem to suffer it more than everyone else, or do we? If this does afflict your life more that you can handle or to the point that it has become debilitating or is impeding on your ability to live a normal life then now is the time to seek medical help. This is not a mental illness, but a fear that has rooted inside of you for reasons only known to your brain, but a fear that also be plucked out and eradicated with time and patience.
Fear And Public Speaking
What you don't hear from successful speakers is about the journey itself.
For example, when I started in the field of speaking, I was a corporate employee.
As a project engineer, I had to develop concepts and designs to solve problems within the plant.
I was good at this and yet my career progress was slow because I simply couldn't speak well,
and I needed to present my proposals to obtain funding.
I would become nervous, tongue tied and confused.
So when I started my public speaking career I was so scared and terrified, that even the
thought of being in front of a group of people, made me feel physically sick, and would
make my heart race so much, I thought I was having a heart attack.
Clearly, I didn't want to go through my life like that so I did some training and got ready
for my Maiden speech.
With this speech I was competing for a prestigious Silver Cup and I was excited because
I thought I was going to win it.
I walked out onto the stage in front of 200 people and arrived at the podium.
Suddenly my legs started to shake so much I thought I was going to fall down.
So I grabbed the lectern, which also began to shake, and then, at that moment, the butterflies
in my stomach turned into dive-bombers and I started to feel sick.
While shaking the lectern so much, I watched with horror, as my notes slid onto the floor.
In total confusion now, I decide to start my speech without picking up the notes.
My voice quavered as I stated my name, and then my mind went completely blank.
After what seemed an eternity, I grabbed my notes from the floor and fled the stage.
All I achieved that day was to let people know who I was and that I was one pathetic speaker.
Needless to say , I didn't get the prize or even a polite or sympathetic applause from the audience.
It was such a horrifying experience that I had to make a decision to quit or do something about it.
(I was unable to get into the witness protection program to lose my identity!)
Well I studied, practised and used everything that I write about in my book and then some
12 months later, I had to give a speech on behalf of my company.
Now this was a seriously major important speech for the company and me.
If I didn't do a brilliant job, my career would finish, the company would suffer and I reckon
I would have been out of a job.
That would mean, a massive change in lifestyle for my family, changing schools, changing
houses and even putting my food supply at risk..
So as I walked to the Podium this time I could feel this huge pressure bearing down on me.
And do you know?
I was confident, created humour and had them laughing, created pathos so they could feel
sad, lifted them with excitement, spoke a very clear message, had them in the palm of my hand
and when I finished ,they stood up to applaud.
Pretty good eh?
Oh yes, I got promoted and realised that day, that being a great public speaker helps you make
more money, no matter what your job is.
So what made the difference?
What transformed me from bumbling idiot to charismatic speaker?
And could anybody do the same?
Clearly, the answer is yes, if they went through all the stuff they I had.
Why am I qualified to say this?
Because it is based upon my learnings, my studies, my experiments, good and bad, and
most importantly, on my real life, in the fire, under the hammer, experience.
And then I even wrote my own book on how to overcome the Fear of Public Speaking!
As Chairman of the Public Speaking Group at the Australian Institute of Management I have
coached and helped many people who at the beginning of the year , could not even say their
name, and by the end of the year, had become articulate and confident speakers.
So overcoming the fear and building the skills, step by step, not only transforms your
presentation skills, it builds your confidence in all parts of your life.
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