Decide whether you want a simple civil ceremony or a church-affiliated wedding.
This should be a straightforward decision, but if you run into a snag on this point, don't worry; you can work it out. It'll just be the first of many compromises!
If you want a church wedding, make an appointment to talk to the church representative that handles such things and go from there.
Weddings cost money. It's one of a handful of life-changing events, and an investment to make it everything you ever wanted it to be is appropriate.
Talk it over. Come up with a dollar figure and start gathering estimates. Once you two have decided how much you want to spend, however, don't go over that amount. This is the first big investment you'll make, and you want it to be a pleasant one.
Get Informed
Make your list of "must-haves," such as wedding gown, invitations, flowers, rings and reception. Then call for estimates on each of those items.
If your estimates total less than your wedding budget, you can go on to items on your second-tier list, your "wanna-haves." This list would include such items as a hairdresser, a photographer, a stag night, a hen party and professional music, both for the wedding ceremony and the reception.
The Moment You've Waited For
Did you forget the honeymoon? Not likely!
You may look at the costs you've racked up on paper so far and despair, thinking you'll only have money left over for a night at the bowling alley! If that's the case, go back over all your lists and prune. Or give yourselves more time to save the money you'll need to create your perfect experience. The honeymoon, after all, is the consummation of the marriage. Make it a time to remember forever.
Bon voyage!
Free Wedding Planner Checklist
Once you are engaged, the planning process begins. The wedding planner checklist is a detailed picture of the wedding day and reception. This checklist is the perfect tool to help ensure that your wedding day will go as you have planned. The most important details to secure right away are the location for the ceremony, the location of the reception, the photographer, musicians or DJ, the caterer and the florist. Schedule these vendors at least nine to twelve months prior to your wedding date. Your budget for the wedding should also be set at this time.
The wedding planner checklist is categorized by a timeline. The timeline is based on the date of your engagement to the day of your wedding. At the top of the checklist will be items that need to be addressed within 9 to 12 months from the time of your engagement. Then, the time frames are as follows: 6 to 9 months before, 4 to 6 months before, 2 to 4 months before, six to eight weeks before, four to six weeks before, two weeks before, one week before, the day before, and the day of your wedding.
What other items should the checklist include? There are some items that will naturally be included on every bride's checklist. Then, there are some items that make the checklist personal. Be sure to include anything and everything that is important to you, your groom and your family members. That way, nothing will be missed and your wedding day will be a memorable day (in the good sense!).
Some sample items to include on your wedding planner checklist:
1) Names of the loved ones in your wedding party
2) Announce your engagement
3) Guest list
4) Wedding gown
5) Tuxedos for the groom and wedding party
6) Maid of honor and bridesmaids' dresses
7) Flower girl(s) and ring bearer
8) Wedding favors
9) Accommodations for out of town guests
10) Wedding rings
11) Invitations
12) Photographer and location(s) for wedding photos
13) Wedding cake
14) Flower arrangements, bouquets, centerpieces
15) Music selections for the wedding and reception
16) Limousine, horse drawn carriage, or the like
17) Decorations (there will be subheadings under this section)
18) Menu for the reception
19) Programs for the wedding ceremony
20) Jewelry for the bride and wedding party
21) Create a bridal registry (for not only the wedding, but the bridal showers prior to the wedding day)
22) Appointments for hair, makeup and fingernails for wedding party and mothers of the bride and groom
23) Honeymoon plans
Your wedding planner checklist will be much more detailed and include several minute details under each of these headings. However, along with all of the fun items to include on your checklist, there are a few others to remember. Contact your local newspaper about printing your engagement and wedding photograph. Submit a change of address card to the post office so your mail will be delivered in a timely manner. If your state requires it, get your blood tests and then secure your marriage license.
Your wedding planner checklist can be tailored to meet all of your wishes for your wedding day. Keep this checklist safe by storing it in your wedding planner book. This way, all of your important information is in one location and at your fingertips at a moment's notice. A wedding planner checklist will ensure your day goes as planned, so make sure to look at it often and check off the completed tasks as you go. On your wedding day, relax and enjoy the day!
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