Of course, this is not our fault as most of us have not been taught about these areas in schools or by our parents. Somehow, men women relationship seems to be a taboo that shouldn't be talk about when we were young.

Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex but you really want to get him/her back together with you. So, should you do this or do that? What are the things that you should or shouldn't do?

Well, personally, I believe that what you did not do is as important, if not even more important than what you do.

The reason is because doing certain things can hurt your chances to get your ex back. You do not want to make those mistakes and you should definitely try to avoid them at all cost.

There are simply too many mistakes that are being made by men and women that it is not feasible to discuss all of them in this article.

Perhaps, what is more important is that you understand the common characteristics of these mistakes, so that you will be less likely to commit these mistakes in the future.

The common characteristic is that these mistakes are usually made out of desperation.

A typical example is calling your ex too often.

For example, a man may try to call his girlfriend. However, the girlfriend has already decided to avoid her boyfriend and therefore did not pick up the phone.

So, what happen is that the man will try to call again. Yet, the woman still did not pick up the phone. Now, the man started to feel panicky. So, he keeps on calling his girlfriend, over and over again.

Can you see the mistake that is being made here? Can you tell how the man is feeling now?

Well, it is pretty obvious that the man is acting out of desperation. And his girlfriend can definitely sense it. If not, why did the man keeps on calling?

This is a mistake you will definitely want to avoid. First, if you call your boyfriend or girlfriend over and over again, it will immediately expose you as being desperate and needy.

This will only tend to push your boyfriend or girlfriend further away. You will have higher chance in getting your ex back if you don't make those mistakes.