Problem is a sign of life. The only people that do not have problems are the people who live in cemetery. We live to solve problems. People get paid and if they can do extremely well, they can earn significantly higher. We have to understand that the process of problem solving starts within our mind. To cross over the trouble water need courage and determination. This is the same with breaking obstacles. Here are the steps that we can conclude:



1.Write down the problems. We need to know what the problems we want to solve are. Give the situation background. What had happened and how did it happen? Write down the details of the event. There is a theory that once the event of problem appears through our brain by writing, the attached emotion will be dramatically reduced. We will get on the problem with less emotion. We will deal with it more with reasons. And we will be reasonable enough to sacrifice the emotion that we have left.

2.Appraise the situation. Ask ourselves how serious the situation is. What will happen if we do nothing with the situation? A lot of time, problem only originated in our mind and it may not even be problem in the eyes of others. We just mix problem with our emotional intensity and make the problem larger than it really is. Look into the problem using the third person's eyes. Ask ourselves if it is still the problem if it happens to a stranger. Thorough analysis of the situation will help us come up with the solution and some time proper action to deal with the obstacle.

3.Write all possible choices that you can do. Be creative. See the possibilities in all the angles you can look at. Omit the limitation on any resources that we may have. Write down as many choices that we can. See them without emotion. See it as we are suggesting them to a third person. Exclude ourselves out of the problem. The more we write the choices, the better chance that we can solve it.

4.After we have a list of all possible solution, choose what is appropriate in your circumstances. What type of the resources that we need to have to solve this problem. Do we need help from other people? What knowledge and skill do we need to acquire more in order to solve it? Do we need to consult a third party who is better in this area than us? Pick up five best solutions that we have written down. Decide which of the five we will do first. Make the decision that we will do it immediately without any procrastination.

5.Take actions toward the problem solution. Do the best you can on you plan to solve it. You may and you will fail in some attempt. Do not take it as failure. Just call it a feedback from your action and continue doing what you mean to do. Evaluate why you have not got the outcome and see if you need to change your approach.

6.Truly belief that the problem can be solved one way or another. Be in quiet place. Visualize that you can solve every problems that come into your hands. Imagine that you celebrate after breaking this obstacle. Regular visualization will attract the circumstances and attribute we need to solve the problem. It will make your life better according to the law of attraction.

A lot of time, problems that we have are not really a problem. We have to make sure that they are really a problem. When we solve the problems focus on the solution not the problems themselves. Most people are so overwhelmed with the problems that they do not see any solution to them. Have a strong belief that all problems can be solved if we determine to do it. Take immediate and continuous actions until the problems are solved. Do not stop or give up until we get what we want.

Problem solving is a skill. We need to practice in order to be effective in solving problem and breaking the barriers. The six steps laid out here are the systematic way to handle the problem.