There are many things in life we anticipate and prepare for. But there are some things that we would rather not face. For most people, it is death. Death is often painful for the family of the departed. Those who are left have to cope with their loss and the changes that this will bring. Prior to moving on, there is one final rite to go through - the funeral.



The funeral is the last chance to say our final farewell to the deceased. As with all goodbyes, it is better to remember the good memories instead of dwelling on unresolved issues and misunderstandings. Often, the eulogy is the highlight of the funeral. Through the eulogy speech, those who are left give tribute to the departed. It is also an affirmation that even if the person has passed away, his good deeds and our memories of him/her remain in the hearts of those whose lives he/she has touched.

The term "eulogy" comes from the Greek word that can be broadly translated as "good word". It may be delivered as a tribute for someone who is alive (during birthdays) or deceased (during the funeral service). It is an opportunity to remember all the good things that the departed has done in the company of the people who cared about him or her.

Writing a eulogy speech may seem like a daunting task mainly because it is something that people do not normally prepare for. Even the most organized person will tell you that he or she does not have a eulogy prepared for a loved one who is still alive and well. The surprise factor and the limited time are the only challenges to writing a eulogy speech. It also goes without saying that grief may become a hurdle, as well. However, as soon as you have overcome those obstacles, the rest will come easy.

Start off by talking about facts - the life and times of the person. Of course, we do not want it to be long and drawn-out so it is best to pick highlights in the person's life. Include milestones in the person's life that the mourners can relate with. If the departed has done something that created a positive impact in the community or to his peers, include that in the eulogy. If he is a small-town hero, treat him as such.

In delivering the eulogy speech, you may be speaking from the point of view of a relative, friend, or colleague. Anecdotes and mention of the person's quirks will liven up the speech and make it even more personal as these are things that those present can relate with.

The eulogy speech is a chance for all those present to collectively remember the good times shared with the departed and to pay tribute to the full life he or she has lived. Write and speak from the heart and it will turn out right.