1) Laugh & the World laughs with You

Having a great time is infectious and which person doesn’t love being around positive people? Distribute good sentiments and get prepared for making a good first impression. Concentrate on positive things and keep the conversationupbeat, inocuous and has a feel good factor. Feel great about yourself and you will always see that others will be attracted to you.

2) Transmit Clear Cues

I apologise ladies but its the case, a large number of guys are famously terrible at interpreting cues from girls. Positive behaviours may simply mean you’re a nice kinda girl. Steer clear of awkward circumstances by knowing what you want when you flirt and make sure your cues are obvious. If you genuinely want to meet men then by all means flirt, except ensure you know how to separate the sexual flirting cues from the 'hello, I'm friendly' flirting cues.

3) The Big Freeze; a Major No no

Make sure you look friendly. Sitting like an ice queen won't draw guys to you and you may unconsciously be giving out keep away signals when secretly you're keen for someone to approach you. Check which signals you are giving out and if it's not getting the results you want, adjust them. Why not ask friends to offer you some feedback?

4) Even the Hottest Women gets Rejected!

From time to time events don't work out for whatever reason. The truth is that everyone has experienced rejection in one part of their life. Do not linger on less than positive responses, instead seek compliments, take them in and dismiss off rejection.

5) Emanate Appeal

A simple rule of thumb for any outfit is that if your mother would wear it, you shouldn’t. If you look at your reflection and think, "Do I look silly in this?" let's be franks - you probably do.

But at the end of the day, if you feel attractive you’ll come across that way as well. If you feel happy and confident then you’ll emanate sexiness!

6) Let Your Body do the Communicating

What’s the trick behind a woman’s mesmerising impact on men? Being flirtatious with style. We can all do it. We only need to pick up the secrets. The good news? The ability to be flirtatious is hard wired; it’s about confidence and being able to sexily be in your body. The other trick is understanding body language. We girls may worry about what we say but in fact it's our bodies that engage in most of the talking. Communication is 60 per cent non-verbal. So watch what your body is saying. Scientists say you can enhance your powers of attraction by approximately 70 % if you can improve your body language.

7) Show People Your Sexy Glow

If you’re chatting with a man you like then reflect his body communications and mode of behaviour and they will feel you are in synch with them. Pull yourself up to your full height and lean slightly towards them, turning your torso to face his more directly, and keep physical barriers to a minimum; be sure not to cross your arms like a fortress.

Most importantly, ooze the appearance of vitality. Appear energetic, luminous even. Picture youself having just had an incredible romp and have an awesome aura around you.

8) Be Like Madonna

Confidence is probably the most attractive of all traits. have a quick chat with yourself before you head out and tell yourself you’re fabulous!.

If you need a little help in the confidence department, pretend until you make it. Discover a role model you can emulate, think Madonna or Marylin Monroe. Imagine how they would behave, feel and walk. Think of what characteristics make her attractive and how she communicates these physically.

9) Listen Up Ladies

The most underrated flirting takent is just listening. Men like discussing themselves. They like being the centre of attention. Pose open-ended questions - that is, questions that can't be answered by a yes or no answer. Tilt your chin, look him in the eyes and encourage him