Smarter men then I have been fooled by the concept of love. So many of us can not determine whether it is a noun or a verb. We can not figure out if it is something you give, or receive. In this article I plan to answer only one question. Do you have a love problem?



Well, lets see. How do I know if I have a love problem or not. That is simple, if you are not full of joy and if you do not look forward to each and every day... Then you definitely have a love problem. The problem is just as simple as the question. You do not love yourself. That is the truth like it or not. If you are not living a content, fulfilled life, then it is not circumstances that you need to work on. Circumstances will always change. You need to work on self.

If you are like most people you are living your life from one day to the next with no thought of what really makes you happy. Well it is high time you thought about what makes YOU happy. As soon as you treat yourself the way you deserve, you will begin to treat everyone around you better. This is the key to opening the door to true happiness.

So, what makes you happy? Most people think that it is important for them to have lots of money and things. Money and things are byproducts of what it takes to make people happy. Through careful examination you will find out that what really makes you happy is doing for other people. Strange as it sounds.... it works. If you are willing to start doing for others you will see and discover that it gives you more true contentment than anything else you can do. Remember, the only way to take care of yourself is to serve someone else.

I know that this is a difficult concept for us to believe or understand. Well, love is not the goal, it is not the prize. It is what you reap when you sow the seeds of concern, time, and commitment to others. The old expression you can not get it unless you give it is still true.

Do you love yourself enough to find out what really makes you happy? I suggest that you sit back and listen to that inner most part of your being. It is your heart. Your heart will let you know who you need to spend time with. Your heart will enable you to do for others. When you get out of the way and listen to your heart you will find that your love problem was not a problem of circumstances, but rather a problem of your own heart. You were not listening to your own heart.

By serving others you will begin to love yourself and the problems of the heart will disappear. The pain and hurt caused by a lack of love will disappear when you listen to your heart and give of your love to others who need it.

It is a great and wonderful circle. Love others..... they love you......... you love yourself.......love others.