We men must never assume that our wants and needs are the same as that of women. We are programmed differently in our DNA. We should not be afraid of this though. Instead we should use it to our advantage. Imagine knowing how they think and feel, this alone will put you ahead of 99% of the men out there.



Most of us men have the belief that women are attracted to looks, money and fame. In fact, most women care most about how we can make them feel. It has nothing to do with looks, money or fame.

We do not need to be a Brad Pitt or George Clooney. We have been given what we have so use it! We should focus on our strengths and this confidence about ourselves alone will indirectly attract women into our lives.

In fact, we should be quite relieved. We have it easy. When a man is not physically attracted to a woman, there is not much she can do to change things. But it is always possible for a man who don't have the looks, the height, the wealth, the fame to make a women feel the same way we do when we see a physically beautiful women. Ain't that cool?

Most men make the mistake of trying to buy her affection with gifts and presents.

It is pleasant of course to take her out on romantic dinners where the both of you can enjoy each others company, but if you make the mistake of buying her gifts way too early in the relationship, she will see this as a form of buying your way into her heart.

And the funny thing is, if this is a women that constantly accepts your gifts and continually expects more, you may need to question how long you can keep this up and is she really with you for who you are or the presents she's been getting.

Most women actually want men whom have the confidence in themselves to know he can please her with who he is and not how much he has got superficially.

Men must never portray they are desperate to land a date or land in her pants. Subtly make it clear that you are choosing. There is nothing more powerful in a female mind than letting her know that you are selective when it comes to finding the perfect partner. This alone also sets you apart from most guys out on the street that would settle for anyone they can get. Usually it is proximity or convenience which a leads a guy towards a women.

Women are usually the fishermen who throw out the bait and it is us guys hungry for a feed that get lured into anything.

Make a decision to set yourself apart today! When a woman knows you are actually the one fishing and very selective of the catch, she will give it her all to impress you in reverse as she perceives she has competition!

Wow, isn't this a difference in thought!