After spending many years suffering with problem blushing, I have always wondered why it is that people develop problem blushing tendencies. Do problem blushers just have sympathetic nervous systems that are entirely too active? Or is there more to problem blushing than just a physiological variable?
One thing that seems to be consistent among those who suffer from problem blushing is being very sensitive to the opinions and judgments of other people. Is this an inborn personality characteristic? Or did something in the environment in which problem blushers were raised lead to having an excessive concern about how they are viewed by other people?
In my own situation, I believe that while some of my problem blushing might be attributable to physical characteristics, my environment did in fact play an important role in my blushing problems. My parents had a tendency to be very critical, and I feel that that contributed to my excessive blushing issues.
Even now as an adult who has overcome problem blushing, I feel myself withdrawing when I am around them. Without realizing what I am doing, I seem to be very careful about what I say and do around them, as a means of making sure that my actions don't result in disapproving words or looks from them.
While I did not realize it while I was a child, as an adult looking back it seems clear that much of my behaviour was impacted because of the critical way my parents responded to my actions. Even my childhood friends noticed that I acted like a different person when my parents were around. I became very inhibited in the presence of my parents, so as to avoid getting overly critical, negative feedback.
As an adult, I learned that excessive negative feedback is key to causing inhibitions from reading Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. It is true that those who are socially inhibited tend to be excessively careful in their actions, so as to avoid drawing additional criticism. This is a vicious cycle, because such actions lead to even greater levels of inhibition and anxiety.
So, I do believe that my upbringing has something to do with the fact that I am overly sensitive to how other people judge me. While some people may have a greater physical tendency than others to react to judgment and criticism by others, the fact remains that blushing is triggered by situations in which one might be judged, or by the fear of being in such situations.
One of the major keys to putting a stop to problem blushing behaviour is to train yourself to believe, rightfully so, that what other people think about you doesn't define you. There is no reason to be ashamed of yourself, or to base your sense of self-worth on the judgments of other people. You have to get over feeling shame about yourself in order to tackle your problems with excessive blushing.
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For many years, psychologists have debated on just how big a factor mental health is in the criminal mind. After all, some of the world's master criminals aren't clinically insane and have little in terms of mental disorders. Certainly, there is an abundance of mental health problems in criminals whose crimes are subjected to sensationalism by the media, but there are others. There are criminals out there that are not insane and can easily pass even the most scrutinizing examinations without even the slightest indication of any known or documented mental health disorder. Also, insanity does not automatically make one a criminal and sanity does not automatically make one an innocent bystander. So, with that in mind, what exactly is the relationship between psychology and crime?
The first concern in unraveling this link is whether or not there is such a thing as a ?born criminal.? Is there a combination of genetics and hereditary mental health problems that automatically labels a person as a criminal for life? The number of people who believe in this is starting to decrease rapidly, particularly in the light of recent arguments. Even in families with a long history of mental illness, criminal behavior is not a common trait of the offspring. Hereditary mental health disorders may manifest, but they do not automatically become triggers for criminal behavior. In the cases where they do, it is found that the environment they grew up in also played a large role in the transition. However, like any other aspect or facet of the complex human psyche, it would be a mistake to assume environment alone plays a major role.
There is no arguing that the nature of one's environment and influences growing up play a role in this argument. However, there is still debate over whether it is a larger factor than psychology. There is an old study into a New York family known as the Jukes (a false name) that chronicles observations into what drove such a large extended family to criminal behavior. The study systematically removed family members that were not exposed to the primary branch of the family. Certain other factors were also used to remove even more members. Finally, when the core of the family had been determined, the study was conducted and returned interesting results. Of the remaining 709 members, a startling 180 of them had grown up as criminals in some way, shape, or form. Further study into the details show that the 180 were in constant contact with family members who were known criminals, though not necessarily close blood relations.
There is little arguing against the adage that criminals are made, not born. However, the debate still rages as to how exactly criminals are made. Studies have been conducted to prove a relationship between genetics and crime, but there is no substantial proof that a ?criminal gene? exists. A connection between mental illness and criminal behavior has also been suggested, but the fact that not everyone who's crazy is a criminal makes the hypothesis suspect. For the time being, the debate will continue, with no clear answer in sight. Ultimately, all of the aforementioned factors could play an integral role in turning a person into a criminal.
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