However, for many inner-city youth who do not have the family structure that their middle-class counterparts enjoy, celebrities such as Barkley are often the only ones who have overcome similar circumstances to achieve enormous success, despite the obstacles.
Therefore, Food Network personality and author Chef Jeff Henderson is determined to share his story of tragedy and redemption to as many youth as he possibly can. The star of the Food Network reality show The Chef Jeff Project recently spoke to students at An Achievable Dream Middle and High School, a Newport News, Va. public/private partnership between businesses and the local school system. The Achievable Dream schools educate socially and economically disadvantaged students in an attempt to level the playing field between them and their more affluent peers.
The school brought in Chef Jeff as a motivational speaker to encourage students to avoid the pitfalls that altered his life and to never give up on their dreams despite the circumstances.
“I know these kids,” Chef Jeff said. “I know their thoughts, their fears, the negativity in their life—because I was in their spot years ago. For me the lure of the street was too strong, I had no dreams and I felt I had no other options. As I stood in front of these kids … I wanted to help them realize that they have great potential—they have options.”
Unfortunately for Chef Jeff, early in life he chose the wrong options and paid dearly for them. He was incarcerated for 10 years in federal prison for drug trafficking. Nevertheless, it was in prison that he discovered his passion for cooking. He has now turned that passion into a distinguished career that includes becoming the first African American honored as “Chef de Cuisine” at Caesar's Palace in Las Vegas.
His inspirational life journey was portrayed in the bestselling book, COOKED, which is being turned into a screenplay by the producers of Will Smith's film The Pursuit of Happyness. In addition, his reality show is also inspiring others as he mentors disadvantaged youth who intern with his catering company, Posh Urban Cuisine, in Los Angeles. Unlike other reality shows, no contestant is eliminated. Instead, they are given the opportunity to prepare meals for such high-profile clients as the Los Angeles Dodgers and the cast of General Hospital.
However, none of Chef Jeff's accomplishments are as important as the message he gives to disadvantaged youth in classrooms across America.
“We encourage children to attain a vision and develop a personal, achievable dream that will light the way for success and joy in life as productive citizen,” said Walter S. Segaloff, founder of An Achievable Dream. “Chef Jeff has walked in their shoes and knows their streets. He has a message the kids can relate to and respect.”
That respect has been earned by Chef Jeff's willingness to be a role model, despite the fact that others shun this important responsibility.
Not A Role Model
Teamwork and partnerships are the natural order in which canines think. A good analogy to explain this better is to observe the way a sports team all works together to accomplish the same goal of winning. Your dog is the same way and looks at you and the rest of his family as part of his "team". He counts on everyone of you in the house to teach him how to behave, understand the rules, and above all, help him survive.
In order for your �family team� to be successful, everyone in the house, especially the dog, must adhere to specific rules, characteristics, and respect. Such examples would include discipline structure, a common way of behaving amongst everyone in the house, and most importantly, respect between your dog and its owners (you and the family). Without these things, there would be total chaos for your pet and he would not have a clue as to who was the leader and how he should behave.
Just like children, dogs and puppies need to be confident in whomever is in charge and giving them direction. Not only is this important for obedience and having a well-behaved dog in the house, but it also gives the animal a sense of belonging. In terms of who should be the "leader" of the pack, it really doesn't matter to your dog, he just needs to be secure that one of you is in charge, for a better sense of his own security.
You Might Be Wondering "How will my dog know who is in charge since there are so many people in the house?"
This is an excellent question for those households with a lot of family members living inside. Amazingly enough, your dog will pick up on the natural order of things. Without being taught, your dog will come to understand the specific hierarchy amongst the family members. And what's more, should you (as the leader) are ever away from the house, your dog will still respect and obey the other members of the family in your absence, just as he would with you.
To Keep Your Dog Well-Behaved, Never Slack On The Rules
At this point it should be clear to you that all dogs must have order and respect in the house, between all members of the family, in order to keep them disciplined. Consider how poorly your children would behave if they had no parents as role models to keep them in check. Without someone enforcing the rules, which does happen often in some households, kids end up with an incredible amount of behavior issues.
The same can happen to your dog if he does not recognize the family as a team and is missing a sense of �who is in charge�. And trust me, dogs whom are raised in this type of environment can grow up to have extremely negative obedience problems. The key is to have everyone in your family all agree on treating the dog the same way, between everyone in the household. This will ensure that your dog lives a life of happiness, security, and good behavior.
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