Text dating is incredibly convenient. It's very simple and stress free. You basically get on a text dating program such as Match or Meetmoi, and give them information about you and the person you're interested in. The program then finds those qualities and sends you their information. Then, all you do is filter through those that interest you and start texting them if you see any potential. It's as simple as that. The only hard part is when you want to take the relationship off the phone and into the real world.



Texting is kind of like a drinking addiction. At first you love it, it's fun, and then at some point you need it and you can't get away from it. Well, the same goes for text dating. You'll love it and then you can't get away from it. In other words, it can become your crutch if you are not careful.

First, the goal with text dating is to meet someone you match up with, send a few messages, make a phone call, and then if there's interest, meet up in the real world. Below, I'm going to explain The 3 Text Dating Laws you must apply in order to move smoothly from the phone into the real world.

Law #1 - Text date for no more than two weeks with a person - After two weeks of text dating someone, you start building a connection over the phone and then it becomes a lot harder to move into the real world. Basically, texting is the first step in getting the relationship to the real world. If you continue past two weeks, consider your relationship stuck on the phone.

Law #2 - Build importance and value - If you are a guy, remember to flirt, seem busy / important, and don't instantly respond when she texts you. If you are a woman, remember to flirt, put in lines that turn him on (example: "just looking cute (or sexy) for this party I'm going to") and show signals when something he's doing is working, such as texting, "hahahaha, you're funny." Just remember, the person is going to want to meet you if you have created value and importance.

Law #3 - Move into an easy and casual first meeting - Never make your first meeting a huge event. Why? Well for one, you don't know the person and you don't want to waste your time and energy on someone you don't know yet (remember you are valuable and important) and two, you're not trying to impress them, but instead trying to see if they are worth pursuing. I usually grab a cup of coffee or a quick bite for 10-15 minutes and then take off to something I got to do. Now if there is chemistry, I will put a little bit more time and energy into our second meeting. Remember, you're not there to impress the person, but rather, you're there to have fun and qualify if they are right for you.

Remember, texting is just a step in the process and not the place to have or keep relationships.