The 5 WORST Things You Could Say When Approaching Women
by A.J. Rivera
For some reason in the dating world, men have this uncontrollable fear when it comes to approaching women. A really attractive woman seems to intimidate us and stop us in our tracks like nothing else! Why is that? Why do they seem to have this 'power' over us?
What if you knew exactly what NOT to say when you approach a woman so you won't be as nervous and INCREASE your chances with her dramatically! Well, here you go!
I have listed for you the 5 WORST things you could possibly say to a woman when you approach her or meet her. These are big 'no-no's' so pay attention.
5. Would you like to dance?
This is one of the most commonly used 'lines' by guys in a club or party scene. And while this has worked on occasion, it still isn't the best thing you could say right when you approach an attractive woman. Remember: she doesn't know you from Adam and she doesn't know what your intentions are. Try engaging her in some playful banter first before you decide to ask her to dance. These next four 'lines' are MUCH worse so listen up.
4. Can I buy you a drink?
Ahh, the classic 'pick-up line' in a bar or club... This one seems almost standard, doesn't it? And it IS standard. That's exactly why you should NEVER say it! It's so boring and without originality! You will come across as the same as every other average guy who's asked her that. And women hate AVERAGE guys. The last thing you want to do is put yourself into that category of being considered 'average'. You must avoid it like the plague! It would be a much better idea if you told a woman to buy YOU a drink for once!
3. Can I buy you dinner sometime?
Similar to the 'can i buy you a drink?' line... women have heard this one a million times! Now, I know that you just want to be nice and get to know her so you think a nice dinner out on the town will do the trick... But when a woman hears this line, they automatically think 'LOSER' and 'BORING'. Buying anything for a woman that you've just met is not a smart thing to do to begin with. Many women will consider your generous gestures as a form of MANIPULATION. They think your trying to 'buy' their affection with dinner and gifts instead of just being yourself and have them like you for your personality. So NEVER approach a woman and say this. PERIOD.
2. You're hot/beautiful.
I know what you're thinking... 'What's wrong with this one?' Right? Don't women like to be complimented? And women DO like compliments! But let me clue you in on a little secret about women that they will NEVER admit to... Many women FEED off of compliments! That's right! They love the 'power' that they get when every single guy they ever meet compliments them and tells them how beautiful they are or how amazing they are... etc. It makes them feel good, yes, but after you've complimented her, she got what she needed from you and she will just move on. But imagine now for a moment that after a thousand guys come up to her and compliment her, she's going to get used to it, right? All those guys will seem the same to her and will come off as 'AVERAGE'. And then after those thousand 'boring' and 'average' guys.. you approach her and say something totally off the wall and funny that's NOT a compliment; or even say something that MAKES FUN of her and TEASES her! Now, who do you think will stick out in her mind? Those thousand other guys... or YOU! Think about it.
1. I really like you.
The most DANGEROUS thing you could do when you first meet a woman is say 'I like you' or 'I have a strong feelings for you'. If you want to scare them away, then by all means say this line! Just like the compliment thing, guys say this to women all the time.. hoping that they will feel it too. And if you say this to an attractive woman you've just met, she will consider you as 'needy' and 'clingy' and just plain PATHETIC. So NEVER say this to a woman you've just met.. whether you mean it or not. And if you DO mean it, then wait till you've gotten to know her for a LONG time and are in a 'relationship' with her.
So there you go, the 'Top 5 WORST Things You Could Say When Approaching Women', and if you want to find out what types of things you DO want to say to women, then check out http://www.ultimatedatingsecretsrevealed.com for more essential dating tips and techniques!
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More investments go sour from these different ?mistakes? than any other obstacle you'll face in your investing career. So please, do yourself a favor and keep reading. And keep an open mind too.
Number two is fear. There are two ends to the spectrum here so you have to find a middle ground. The most common is being afraid of cutting your losses. Don't stay in simply hoping it will get better, or you'll dig yourself a much deeper hole. What's worse is being afraid to make any mistakes at all. This has kept many of us from jumping into a sound investment. Just keep in mind that you won't be able to win if you're not even playing the game.
The second half of this is not fearing anything. Having that little voice of reason in your head can keep you from throwing away a lot of money. If this sounds like you, you're cure is risk management. Take the necessary precautions to set explicit limits as to when you get out of any investment, no matter the outcome. Follow the rules you set for yourself to keep your investing safe.
Next on the list: ignorance. I can't believe how eager people are to jump into the system and try to start making money without learning the game. You need to have a passion for learning everything in the market. By studying what you're up against and becoming knowledgeable about what you're doing specifically you'll have a far greater advantage than any other trader.
The big step: figure out what you do and don't know. It's harder than it sounds but by doing so you'll give yourself an honest approach to making yourself better.
Finally we come down to an investor's greatest enemy: greed. People are gullible...YOU are gullible. Too many people get sucked into the "miracle investment" that promises the amazing returns while hiding the major risks. Do your homework. If you take care of your professional ignorance above, greed should never get the best of you.
It's your money we're talking about here. You should be able to look at each investment objectively to ensure your financial safety. Armed with these easy techniques you'll be able to become a major player in the world of investing in no time.
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