You may have hear the idea that children learn from their parents. Well, it's true. Children are like little sponges. They absorb everything we tell them. For example, if a parent curses around their child, they shouldn't be surprised to hear their child repeat the foul word a few days later. The same thinking applies when it comes to drug and alcohol use and abuse.
It is almost a sure fact that a child who grows up in a household where drugs and alcohol are abused will then grow up and become a drug or alcohol addict OR they will turn into physical abusers. This is why it is so important to start now to teach our children the difference between right and wrong. Doing drugs is always a bad thing no matter which way you slice it. Alcohol, on the other hand, is a different story. It is one thing to have the occasional glass of wine with dinner; but when that glass of wine turns into a couple of bottles of wine- or that mixed drink turns into a night of drinking....well, you get the idea.
As our children develop and mature, a child who has grown up in an environment where drinking and drugs are used freely will most likely see no big deal in using drugs or alcohol. However, the child who grows up in a household where his/her parents has sat them down and explained how drugs and alcohol may negatively impact their lives is a lot less likely to get into trouble. It doesn't always work out this way though. On occasion, you will get a child who has grown up in a household that has abused both drugs and alcohol, and as a result, they swear that they will do everything that they can not to end up like their parents or in a similar situation. Similarly, you occasionally get children who have grown up in nurturing homes free of drugs and alcohol, who will wind up being abusers.
Some would argue that the issue lies in the relationship that parents have with their children. Would a child who trusts their parents and would never want to do anything to disgrace them get involved in drug and/or alcohol abuse? Where do you draw the line? Parents also need to pull double duty by making sure they are aware of who their child is hanging out with at school. I can still remember when I was growing up, how my mother made an effort to get to know every one of my friends and their parents. When I was invited over to sleepovers, I wasn't allowed to go unless my mother had first met the child's parents and approved. Perhaps this was just a parent being over protective; but most would simply view it as them being responsible.
As parents, it is your responsibility to encourage your own children to be responsible. And contrary to popular belief, it is never too early to start teaching your child the difference between right and wrong. The sooner we teach our children to be responsible young adults, the sooner we will have a world that is filled with responsible “adults”.
These Children Learn From
There is yet no better medium than books to teach good morals and inculcate the right values in children. Little children love fairy tales and in their dreams they meet the characters they adore. They develop a strong bond with them and see them as role models. Their imagination is stirred when parents read fables and fairy tales at bedtime and they learn to emulate the ideal character portrayed by their favorite heroes' in day-to-day life.
Home and school libraries stock storybooks for children that have stories of adventurers, pirates, explorers and various other interesting topics and subjects. Boys find these stories very fascinating. Girls are more interested in stories that have dolls, ponies, flowers, or are about training as teachers/nurses, cooking food and bringing up a family etc. Each group finds interest in stories that involve characters of the same gender. Stories written for kids usually had either male or female characters specific to each story.
However, stories now combine leading characters of both sexes. A good example of this can be seen in the Harry Potter series that have the stories knitted around the trio of Harry, Ron and Hermione. This recent trend in story writing is leading to a gradual change in the preference of both boys and girls who can now be observed being commonly interested in stories revolving around certain theme centric characters involving both genders.
Stories in the past depicted a safe and pleasant world in which little children could venture out in safety. Modern day stories put even girl characters like Hermione in dangerous situations. However, the charm of stories for little children are still retained making them thoroughly enjoyable and captivating, taking children on a journey into the realm of fairies, gnomes, witches, giants, speaking animals and cities having houses made of sweets, chocolates and cakes.
Illustrated books have their own charm and are loved by children. They help children to create a visual image of their favorite character(s) in their minds. The pictures of different animals and places like gardens and forests etc. keep them happy and occupied and provide them with knowledge about many things and places, which they may not have seen. For their young minds, books are like wells from which they constantly draw the water of knowledge.
Books are good friends to children and provide them with company at any time of the day or night. In comparison to movies, books provide a more powerful medium to teach strong values like comradeship, courage and loyalty to children. As a child gets engrossed in reading, he finds himself transported to the imaginary locale of the story with the characters moving around him. By bonding to the characters, children learn to respond to real life situations when they undergo similar experiences. They learn to express their desires, fears and aspirations. Good books cater to healthy mental and psychological development of children.
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