Expert authors Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider spun the dating world upside down with their 1995 bestseller "The Rules," telling women that they needed to play hard to get to land in Mr. Right. In my review of the book I was looking for tips on how to find the best dating service for me. It only offers up three choices so one has to wonder if they have a vested interest in these companies. Many of my clients find this list to limiting and desire a singlesaide

to online dating service selection.

What it did do is assist me determine how to select from the volumes of men looking for a woman online. So let's get into what the book does deliver.

On their recent visit to The Early Show on CBS they talked about their new book "The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace."

They apply their relationship advice to cyberspace giving a list of do's and don'ts for successful internet romances including:

?How do I write an ad?

With the craze in people turning to online dating, Ellen and Sherrie have come up with yet another hit read, ?The Rules for Online Dating.?

Tips For Every Situation!

Online dating can be extremely tough, especially for those new to the scene. ?The Rules for Online Dating? answers many of the questions that come to mind when we think about singles dating, including questions such as: What's a good length of time before meeting in person? The book goes through a sequence of do's and don'ts providing you a singlesaide

that will hopefully clean out the ?maybes?, revealing the right match for you.

The List Of Rules

All online dating rules listed in the book are based on three premises: A man must initially feel a spark for the woman; and all men love a challenge. There are sixteen rules in all, including how to create a good screen name, and never email someone a second time if he neglects to respond to your email initially.

Could This Be The Secret To Success??

?The Rules For Online Dating? book seems to be based around traditional methods of using basic male courtship to pick the winners

Yet, in the 21st century such a method may also allow one to miss Mr. Right based on modern view embracing that both sexes are equal. For instance, say a potential Mr. Right happens to be shy. A rule such as ?don't offer your phone number first? may exclude the possibility of a meeting between your ever taking place, since the shy guy might be waiting for you to offer your cell number to him! Always keep in mind that ?The Rules for Online Dating? book may not be fool proof. In the end, if you are planning on investigating online dating, online relationships, or singles online dating, this book will help you understand what to look for in a dating service as well as potential matches.