First: We are being called to be awake and conscious.
If anything, this year has told us that we ca no longer live life “as usual."
There are things that are beyond our control (I know, I know, that illusion is so hard to pop). What we can do is meet each today with as much awareness and presence as we can remember to bring to the moment and let that become the basis for whatever action we take.
This is the great hope for our world….that one-by-one, we become just a bit more aware, and thus more compassionate and real. What if each of us evolved by just one degree? What would that look like? You know what? We have the enormous capacity to do just that. This is what we were born to do—now.
Second: Check in with yourself--how are you doing?
What is your experience of yourself amidst the enormous change that we are so clearly in? How are you meeting it? From the macro level change that we hear or read about everyday to the ripples and waves moving through our personal lives and those of family, friends, colleagues and neighbors, it can be easy to have our very core shaken. So, how are you doing with it?
Your well-being is an integral part of the web of evolution. How are you taking care of yourself? Please create some space for you, time to renew yourself, a time to get in touch with various aspects of yourself, time to heal whatever needs your attention. This is no longer a ‘nice thing to do for yourself,’ but a prerequisite for being able to bring your whole self to the living of this life.
Third: Who we hang out with makes a difference.
Being involved with others who are committed to their journey of awakening is vital to gaining and giving support and honest and loving feedback, as well as sharing in the cosmic humor that is part of this journey. In my spiritual community, we call these “essence friends," because the quality of presence-based conversation, inquiry, sharing and care lifts us all. A group of my Enneagram students have decided that their relationships are so vital to their well-being, that they have independently chosen to meet together in-between our regular sessions.
The more we commit ourselves to our growth journey, the more that others who are on similar paths find their way into our lives. You are not alone, I assure you. I encourage you to make space in your life for these important human reminders of ‘who you are’ and why you are here.
As a final note,
There is no moment that does not hold sacredness, if we but remember to hold it as such. This season is a particularly poignant time to call ourselves to attention, to let ourselves be stunned into silence and awe by simply noticing the preciousness of life and by the awareness of the beauty and love that is available to us in every moment.
May you abide in abundant blessings and light during this holiday season.
Roxanne
Roxanne Howe-Murphy, Ed.D.
Teacher, Author, Coach
www.lifewisecoaching.com
We Are One Switchfoot
It is a sad, sad state of affairs that a full two-thirds of the American population is either overweight or outright obese. Since the mid-eighties, the percentage has more than doubled, after remaining stable for the twenty-five years prior to the mid-eighties. The percentage rate for that earlier period was approximately 24-25% and never significantly changed during that period, even with the introduction of fast food in the early sixties. Logic would clearly suggest that fast food escalated obesity but that is not the case and it is backed by statistics. The onset of the rise in overweight and obesity reaching current epidemic proportions began, not coincidentally, with the introduction of aspartame as a chemical sweetener in the mid-1980's.
There are many contributing factors to this unexpected phenomenon. The psychology of the marketing and advertising that removed any associated guilt from consuming the product resulted in direct over-consumption. ?Indulge without the guilt? was the basis for many advertising campaigns. Numerous studies show that users of any diet product consume, on average, 25% more calories per day than non-users. By removing natural ingredients, the body also does not receive the immediate feedback signals needed to inform you that you are satiated and full, and to stop eating. This signal was chemically delayed until after over-consumption had already occurred.
Secondly, the additive aspartame has been shown to actually increase cravings for sweetened products, mainly from it being much more sweeter than sugar and better at quickly rising insulin levels that produce that ?sugar rush? feeling we desire after ingestion. Simple biochemistry shows that the pleasure hormones released provide a short term burst where the consumer feels energized and the mind experiences a very intoxicating state. It is a seductive state of mind. Chocolate, for instance, causes the release of hormones that are nearly identical to those released when we strongly feel the emotion of being in love, such as in early stages of a passionate relationship. The mental picture of a breakup victim sitting home, watching television, and eating chocolate ice cream has some basis as a coping mechanism for the same reason.
The chemistry of a sugar rush also shows it falls off dramatically after about an hour and creates a physical crash from the body dealing with the previous state of over-stimulation. The brain and the body are basically exhausted from the energy it had to expend in hormone release and subsequent return to homeostasis, or its normal level. The brain now signals that it needs more of these pleasure related foods to regain the earlier great feeling and ease the mental and physical exhausted feeling it now has. So starts a daily cycle of spike and crash that outright drains the body leaving the mind and body unproductive and lethargic. Most studies also show that average American workers are only productive a few hours, at best, during the course of a workday. The body and mind are just too distracted and busy dealing with an ill-conceived attempt to alter normal function.
At the end of the day, it is common practice to attempt to add the nutrients that are direly needed for maintenance by ingesting a large, calorie-high, meal of mixed good and bad carbohydrates, fat and protein. Even under optimum conditions, the digestive process goes into panic mode with this many calories, and cannot properly digest half of them. Picture an actual state of chaos where excessive gastric acids are pumped in a futile attempt to breakdown this excessive amount. They wear at the stomach lining as it was not designed to withstand this excess amount of acid and for the extended duration. Acids bubble up and eat at the esophagus and result in the common indigestion and heartburn symptom so many of the population experience. Undigested chunks of food are forced into the intestines, clogging them and clinging to the walls. Polyps and colon cancer result, as a constipated situation is created and the material remains stagnating in the walls.
The ?loosening of the belt? practice is the prime acknowledgment of this. Social customs actually encourage this, as it conveys to the preparer of the meal they have done a great job of inducing you to eat this amount. In reality, it is a clear signal that a digestive disaster has just occurred and begs for you not to repeat it. A classic case of mixed signals has occurred. Obviously, there have been other contributing factors to the dramatic increase in overweight and obese Americans, but by ignoring the basic digestion biochemistry in our genes and forcing them to deal with un-natural foods, excess consumption and the detrimental timing of meals; we have set in motion this destructive path. Genetics has not had near the time required to make adaptations through mutation as the change occurred in such a short period of time from an evolutionary perspective. Unchanged, the problem will continue to accelerate as the only solution is to change the food cycle and America appears unwilling to accept the return to habits of the past.
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