* Your book is back from the printer, you have some newspaper interviews lined up, your attending a meeting with your target audience. . .you are entering one of the biggest publicity weeks of your business and your website crashes (sound familiar?).
* You've worked hard and are gearing up to launch a new product when a vendor calls and says that he can't get the new website up on deadline which is "okay" because the graphic artist's computer crashed and your product picture isn't ready anyway. They'll get back to you.
* Taxes are due and, in some previous insanity, you agreed to do them for friends and family. But you still need information and the tax deadline looms.
* Your hubby needs reading glasses but you can't find the credit card which will give you the big discount. It's gotta be around somewhere.
* Your sister wants to borrow your AAA card - it must be with the missing credit card.
* It hasn't rained for weeks and yet the dog is covered in mud and lying on the couch.
* Your largest client calls on a Friday afternoon and requests the impossible. This was preceded by your smallest client calling and demanding that you drop everything as her every need is *urgent*.
What do you do when it all goes wrong?
1. Laugh.
Laugh hard and laugh often. Laugh like there's no tomorrow - given the above, there may not be.
Seriously though. . .laughter will put you in a much better frame of mind to deal with life's interruptions without losing your sanity.
2. Breathe.
If laughter isn't possible, and sometimes it just isn't, then focus on your breathing. Breathe in and out, in and out as deeply as possible until your pulse stops racing or you let go of the throat that somehow found its way into your grasp.
3. Regroup.
When the walls are caving in around you, take five minutes and figure out what you can do to keep at least one thing moving forward.
Follow-up on the email that may land you a new client. Submit your article to the various article submission sites. Pay a couple of bills. Do one thing, anything so that you can cross something off your *list*. It's probably best if this something doesn't involve interaction with others!
4. Give thanks.
"What? Give thanks? Are you insane?"
I can hear the grumbling from here. Do it anyway! Grab a piece of paper and make a list of everything that you are thankful for - chances are, you have it better than millions of others.
Here's a quick list of things that I know I'm grateful for: my health, family and friends, my pets, my business and my clients, sunrises and sunsets, flowers, chocolate ice cream, the sound of the ocean and a crisp New England fall day.
5. Get out.
Get out of the house and out of the office. Whether you choose to go for a walk, have lunch with friends, go window shopping (leave credit cards at home) or browse the shelves at your local library, get out and enjoy yourself for a bit. You'll return in a much refreshed frame of mind and ready to tackle whatever life throws your way.
Let's be real. Sometimes problems are just problems and not "opportunities". Sometimes lemons make bad lemonade. And not all clouds have a silver lining. When everything goes wrong, try one (or all) of the above techniques, accept it and move on knowing that things will get better!
When It All Goes Wrong Again
What do you do? Bury your head in the sand? Leave the country for a couple of weeks? Change your phone number?
Well, you could, but that won't solve the problem.
Earlier this year, one of the most popular airlines in the USA, JetBlue faced such a dilemma, and we can learn a lot from how they dealt with it.
What happened? Well, there were some major weather problems which had a knock on effect at JFK airport in New York, until the airline experienced a major melt-down.
Many hundreds of passengers were stuck on airplanes for as long as 11 hours, without going anywhere. And apparently the subsequent effects continued to be felt for about a week, with countless flights badly affected.
The news media latched onto the story like a bulldog and they wouldn't let go. That meant that the airlines woes were VERY high profile.
What did they do?
The passengers who were stuck on planes for many hours on the ground were in constant communication with the captain of the plane, who kept them fully informed. Also, when it was clear that the problem was serious, they were immediately informed that they'd receive a full refund of the price of their tickets PLUS a free round-trip ticket for future travel on the airline. It's worth noting that that gesture went far beyond their legal obligation, most airlines won't do anything for you under similar circumstances surprisingly enough.
Also worthy of imitation was the companies swift email response to their entire customer database. They didn't shy away from the issues or try to cast blame on other factors (like most airlines do), but they took full responsibility for the shambles that had occurred, and promised to implement immediate drastic changes to try and prevent it from happening again.
JetBlue also gave specific information. They didn't try to blind customers with jargon or airline industry lingo in the hopes of trying to confuse passengers, but rather they openly talked about the circumstances that led up to the delays, and explained how they had already hired more staff to cope better in the future.
The email from the airlines CEO, David Neelman, started with:
?We are sorry and embarrassed. But most of all, we are deeply sorry.?
What an unusually frank and honest response! No passing of the buck, no excuses. They took full responsibility AND said sorry.
I have a lot of respect for JetBlue for their actions during this period, and personally I'm still happy to fly with them. Their honest response and apology was appreciated by their customers because they've not experienced any major fallout from that incident, or since.
The lessons here should be obvious to you. When things go wrong, customers don't care who's to blame, and it really shouldn't matter. If it was a supplier, take the issue up with them, but don't get the customer involved.
Don't fall into the trap of casting blame anywhere but at your own doorstep. Ensure that your employees have the same mindset, too. Everyone needs to be attuned to taking responsibility and wanting to fix it when something goes wrong.
When you make a genuine apology and fix the mistake, customers appreciate it. Sometimes, they become more loyal because they saw how you treated them.
Like all businesses, we screw up from time to time. But we do try and adopt the attitude that every customer is important to us, we will take responsibility for our mistakes, and we will make it right. I encourage you to do the same.
And don't just deal with the symptoms, fix the root cause of a problem whenever possible to prevent the same thing happening again.
Customers are generally very tolerant of mistakes, but they can't be expected to tolerate the same mistake over and over again.
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