In another article I suggested that we all get fat for a reason, overeating is a symptom of something wrong. So the solution isn't as easy as deciding to eat less as that doesn't resolve the original problem. In this article I'd like to explain what I meant by that and give some suggestions for the way out.
Your self esteem is our own internal measures of how much we feel loved, accepted and value ourselves. It slowly develops over the years and by the end of our teens is fully formed. This is the filter that we look through to see the world. It's also how we imagine the world sees us too.
My strong belief is that during our upbringing, no matter how loving our parents were they cannot 100% fulfil our needs. It is just impossible to do so they are bound to fail. We would have viewed some of that behaviour as abusive - "they hurt me on purpose".
This is the starting point. We all believe - to a greater or lesser extent - that we had a rough childhood. Without doubt some children did get abused, either physically or sexually. That is a rare but sad reality. What makes it even sadder is that the shame that goes with it often means that it is a guilty secret that the child keeps from the world. Over years it gets hidden and we 'forget about it'. Only the hurt hasn't gone away it's just under the surface.
This hidden problem gets carried into our adult lives and can have huge consequences. We can't hold on to a relationship, or live a healthy life as we re-live the hurt from our childhood. Without going too deep into the psychology of the problem just accept that although the 'abusers' have physically stopped we carry on abusing ourselves.
So what's all this got to do with you being overweight?
Everything!
We all know how to live a healthy life. There are lots of different ways to get there, choosing an exercise that you like, eating healthy food that you enjoy, it's easy!
So why aren't you doing it? How come you have tried a many different diets and they haven't worked for you?
Because there is probably stuff that went on when you were a child that hasn't been resolved yet. There may be problems you have that are buried because they are too uncomfortable to deal with. It's not because you have failed; it's not your fault that bad stuff happened.
You can work on this and with guidance and support you can ease this. It will take courage and a determination to improve your life. This is more difficult than a simple diet but the rewards are immeasurable. Imagine your happy life then decide if the effort is worth it.
Why Am I Losing Weight
The answer is simple. You are working harder instead of working smarter. Let me explain. First we will start with the amount of cardio that you are doing. You are just spinning your wheels if you are doing cardio sessions for long periods of time. We have been told for decades that if you perform aerobic activity for 30-60 minutes in your target heart rate zone, then you will burn body fat. WRONG!
Look at Olympic athletes. The long distance runners stay in their target zone for hours a day, every day. But physically they look soft and frail. However the sprinters never perform long distance running and they look defined and well sculpted. That is because the average body fat percentage of an Olympic sprinter is around 5% while the long distance runners are around 14%.
The point I am trying to make is that performing long bouts of cardio is not the way to lose weight or burn fat. Instead try interval training. This means that you work in short bursts like sprinters do. Examples of this would be to walk for 30 seconds then run for 30 seconds or jump rope for 15 seconds then rest for 30 seconds, and do this for say 10-20 minutes. Anything that you do with high intensity coupled with low intensity will give you the results you are after. Also make sure that you perform cardio after any weight training. The reason for this is two-fold.
One, after you have trained with weights your glycogen storages are at a minimal level if not zero. When these storages are gone and you perform this advanced cardio; your body has no other choice than to burn body fat for fuel. Second, you want to have all of your energy for when you are performing resistance training because that is how you develop muscle tone. Every pound of muscle tone that you develop will burn an average of 50 calories per day. If you can develop 10lbs of muscle tone you will burn 500 calories per day while resting! Multiply that times seven days in a week, and you will incinerate a total of 3500 calories by doing nothing! 3500 calories equals an entire pound of fat!
Now let's address the diet issue. Another myth we have been taught is that less calories consumed than expended will equal a weight reduction. This is a half truth. It will result in a weight reduction, but at what cost? Remember that you want to keep the muscle tone and lose the fat because muscle tone burns extra calories. When you diet too hard or restrict too many calories then your body has to find a way to feed itself what you aren't. When that happens the body does not resort to burning fat because there are no nutrients in fat. Think about it. If you had a choice between eating a juicy steak and a bowl of fat; what would you choose? Of course you chose the steak. The body isn't stupid. It picks the same thing because there are nutrients in the steak that your body needs to function.
Next time that you want to restrict calories try to restrict certain types of calories like things made with flour, sugar and foods high in saturated fat. Also spread out your meals over five to seven small meals per day making sure that you eat within 45 minutes after training. This will keep your metabolism primed and help to shed unwanted pounds and body fat.
If you find yourself working harder instead of smarter give these tips a try. If you have hit a plateau, implementing these ideas are a sure fire way to get you over that hurdle.
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