Even though each of these guys has a completely different character and lifestyle, they do similar in two distinct features.



First of all, as I mentioned, they are all looking for a female companion, and second of all they all belong to one of the following groups:

The Men, the Jerks, or the Nice Guys.

What differentiate the groups are the member's reasons for reaching their desired goal (getting a woman).

The "nice guys" group, which is the most populated group of the three, is consisted of guys who desire a woman only for the sake of the emotional prize they may derive from the notion of being with a woman.

Due to society's brainwashing these guys were led to believe that they are not quite sufficient in their current state, and this feeling of insufficiency creates in them a feeling of lack.

This feeling of lack creates the inevitable desire to fill that lack.

And again due to society's brainwashing these guys were led to believe that one major way to fill that lack is through the "possession" of a woman.

This is why the guys in the "Nice Guys" group buy gifts to women, and invite them to expensive dinners. They do these gestures because they feel that they don't have what it takes to get the woman they want, and they have to "bribe" women in order to get what they want.

The second group is the "Jerks Group". This group is the opposite extreme of the first group in many ways. Members in this group believe that they are the best prize possible.

They are very self-centered, very egoistic, and care less for how other people regard their actions. Yet, these negative traits are also what make them desirable to a lot of women (usually women with very low self esteem).

Women don't find them boring because they are always changing, always unpredictable, and women feel that they are on an emotional exciting rollercoaster with these guys (sometimes these guys make them laugh, sometimes cry, sometimes wonder, etc...).

Both groups didn't come to their way of operating in the world due to keen intelligence, but rather due to false beliefs which manifest in them living an illusionary painful lifestyle.

The "nice guys" group believes that they need approval in order to feel validated, and the "jerks" group believes that they are so perfect that they can treat people badly, and get away with it.

Women, like most men in some way, want to live a life of perpetual fun, thrill, pleasure, and joy. This kind of lifestyle, when we are talking about relationship, is only possible if a woman finds a guy who can stir these emotions in her.

The people from the "nice group" cannot stimulate these kinds of emotions in a woman, because they constantly avoid any kind of confrontation which may result in them being rejected.

(Yet, they keep experiencing a lifetime of pain by women who find them boring, and generally not fun to be with).

Then we come to the last group which is the "Men Group". People in the "Men Group" come from insight and realization instead of tendency and false beliefs.

They also want to engage in a relationship with their desired woman, yet they are not like the "nice guys" group which craves it out of necessity, and they are not like the "Jerks" group which treats women badly in order to feel better about themselves.

The "Men Group" sees the futility of using another person to fulfill one's unfulfilled cravings, and understand that real healthy lifestyle can only come when one feels comfortable within one's skin.

The "Men Group" understands that for genuine change to come about one needs not to aspire to fill his emptiness with outward sensations, but rather to find the cause for his inward emptiness.