"Everyone wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die!"
There is good reason why humans resist change. The inborn survival instinct does not want to risk losing what it has in exchange for the uncertainty of change.
The dilemma for the person on the spiritual path is that you must change in order to grow. My Awakening Your Light Body teacher, Duane Packer, often shared this quote: "If you want to have what you've never had, you will need to do what you've never done."
The good news is that the more spiritually evolved you become, the more tools and skills you have for consciously creating your reality.
Although it is quite tempting to believe that if only the other person (or situation) would change all would be well in our world, at some point in our spiritual growth we come to accept that our outside reality is a reflection of our inner reality. It is said that we don't see the world as it is; we see the world as we are. It is a big leap forward in spiritual awakening to understand that what we experience in our outer life is a reflection of our inner life.
The great thing is we can change our mind any time we want and start focusing on how we want our life to be (instead of focusing on what we don't want and creating more of that!)
As Nelson Mandela has said: "We must become the change we want to see in the world."
A good question to ask when you are not liking a life situation:
"What belief, attitude, behavior, or perspective do I need to change so I can be joyful in this situation?"
Once we get past wanting to blame someone else for our unhappiness, it is not too hard to take the next step and ask what we need to change about ourselves.
Is it possible that something as simple as asking what we need to change in ourselves can turn around a seemingly impossible situation? Yes!
How do I know? Because I have done it. The hardest part is acknowledging that the unpleasant outside circumstance is a result of something inside of me. But as the saying goes, "do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?" At this point on my spiritual path I have found myself to be "wrong" so often that I am used to noticing my "faults" and owning what is true no matter how embarrassing, silly, stupid (all judgments, by the way) it is. I encourage you if you have a situation that is causing you unhappiness, use it as an opportunity to ask "What do I need to change in myself so this situation gets better?"
I know you will be pleasantly surprised at the results.
What Needs To Change
One great thing about the NBA and commissioner David Stern is that they fix mistakes with their game. Case in point - in 2003 the NBA switched the first round of the playoffs from a best-of-five game series to a best-of-seven to help ensure that the better team advances. That's why it's mind boggling to wonder why they won't change the playoff format to account for debacles like this season.
If a non-sports fan took a quick check at the 2006 Western Conference Standings and then the Playoff bracket, they would scratch their heads in disbelief. The Dallas Mavericks had the second best record in the conference at 60-22, three games behind conference leading San Antonio. The Denver Nuggets were 44-38, 19 games behind San Antonio. Yet, come playoff time the Nuggets were the #3 seed while the Mavericks were the #4 seed. All because Dallas happens to play in the same division as San Antonio and the top three seeds HAVE TO be division winners. So now Dallas and San Antonio are meeting in the second round of the playoffs as opposed to the Western Conference Championship, where the two best teams should be meeting.
To add to the chaos, the #6 seeded LA Clippers had a better record than the #3 seed Nuggets. Therefore, in their first round series the #6 seed had the home court advantage! This is because the NBA gives the team with the better record the home court advantage...but not the higher seed. Does that make sense at all? If you are going to reward division winners with the top three seeds, shouldn't you also reward them with home court advantage? Or you could just reward the teams with the better record with the home court advantage AND the higher seed! This isn't rocket science Mr. Stern.
If all of that wasn't embarrassing enough, at the end of the regular season the NBA was faced with the worst possible scenario for a sporting event - a game where it was better for each team to lose. The #5 seeded Memphis Grizzlies were playing the #6 seed Clippers with the loser having the inside track to the #6 seed and home court advantage in the first round. The winner would likely get the #5 seed and a date with the Mavericks in the first round. The Clippers "lost" the game and went on to get the #6 seed, home court advantage, and a relatively easy win over the Nuggets in the first round. The Grizzlies "won" the game, the #5 seed, and were promptly swept out of the playoffs by the superior Mavericks.
The NBA cannot allow this to happen again. It's an embarrassment to their game and to all things sports. There should never be a game where it is in each teams best interest to lose. So what do I propose?
The most simple and logical solution to this problem is to guarantee each division winner a spot in the playoffs, but then seed the teams based on their records with the highest seed always having home court. All ties in record would go to the division winner. This still makes winning the division important - it guarantees you a spot in the playoffs and the upper hand in tie breakers - but also ensures that the best teams get the best seeds and home court advantage. I liken it to the NCAA Tournament - winning the Big Ten or the ACC doesn't guarantee you a number one seed, it guarantees you a spot in the tournament.
Here's what the seeding looked like this year:
1. *San Antonio (63-19)
2. *Phoenix (54-28)
3. *Denver (44-38)
4. Dallas (60-22)
5. Memphis (49-33)
6. LA Clippers (47-35)
7. LA Lakers (45-37)
8. Sacramento (44-38)
*Division Winner
Here's what it would have looked like in my proposed system:
1. *San Antonio (63-19)
2. Dallas (60-22)
3. *Phoenix (54-28)
4. Memphis (49-33)
5. LA Clippers (47-35)
6. LA Lakers (45-37)
7. *Denver (44-38)
8. Sacramento (44-38)
*Division Winner
Amazing! The best teams actually have the highest seeds AND have the home court advantage, all while still preserving the importance of winning a division. This would prevent Dallas and San Antonio from playing in the second round, ensure that Memphis would have home court advantage and not be stuck playing Dallas, and prevent Denver from getting the #3 seed just for winning the division...all while keeping the integrity of winning a division by giving Denver the #7 seed over Sacramento for winning their division.
Please, please do the right thing for next season Mr. Stern and adopt a system that is fair for every team. Don't let this disaster turn into the new BCS. Do what you always do - fix what's wrong.
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