Many people think there is a conflict between the Law of Attraction, as taught in "The Secret" and goal-setting. The belief that you should let the Universe decide how to bring you your goal seems to conflict with planning your goal strategy. However, these two approaches are compatible. Let me explain.
A great majority of people believe that it is wrong to be too specific when they set goals. After viewing films like ?The Secret?, which is wonderful and enlightening, some people have the false belief that being specific is the wrong approach. Many teachers in this movie guide you towards allowing the Universe to decide how you get what you want. So if we follow this approach how does setting a goal, complete with a plan for its attainment, fit into this attraction process?
Well, anyone who has achieved an objective through traditional goal-setting methods is well aware that including specific details is the key to its attainment. They fully realize that being as specific as you can increases the likelihood of achieving your goal. These specifics should include completion date, a plan to follow that will lead to the achievement of the goal, stepping stone goals and highly specific details of the goal itself. For example, you may set a goal to have an increase in turn-over of $10,000 by the end of the quarter. You immediately devise a plan to increase sales and begin to build your goal steps by setting smaller goals that will lead to bigger goals that will lead to the attainment of your desired outcome. So how does this fit into ?The Universe knows the best way? approach offered by most law of attraction experts?
Well it's really very simple. When these teachers talk of not getting caught up in the specifics they do not mean the goal itself. They are referring to the delivery method of the goal. The Law of Attraction is always responding to your personal vibration. Your vibration is affected by what you think and how you feel. So if you get specific in your goal and even set time-limits for specific tasks then the Law of Attraction is responding to those thoughts and the feelings associated with them. By staying focused on the specifics your desired outcome and feeling very positive emotions about it and the attainment of it, you are adding tremendous power to the workings of the Law of Attraction. As long as you don't feel negative about your goal, or the plan you have devised, goal-setting like this can be very powerful.
However, if you set your aims too high, or make your goals unrealistic, then the Law of Attraction will work against you! You feel overwhelmed, doubtful and stressed. The Law will respond to this and your attraction vibration will be the opposite of what you want. By over-stretching yourself you will get negative thoughts and feelings about your goal. But by setting realistic goals, that do still stretch you, you can fully utilize the Law of Attraction to your advantage.
One key element of the Law of Attraction is that you always get more of what you focus on. Placing your attention on certain things consistently makes them grow and expand. So, by setting goals and working a plan to achieve it you are actually focusing your energy, thoughts and emotions towards that of the desired objective. By having set time-limits for the achievement of each step of your goal and the goal itself your thoughts, energy and feelings are also focused in that direction. Thus you are following one of the fundamental rules of the Law of Attraction ? what you put our attention on expands. However, don't get caught up on the one channel of distribution. Be open to the universe bringing you your goal any way it sees fit! You can still be specific about your plan but remain flexible and look for other opportunities.
The key is to always remain focused on the goal itself and not on the lack of it! You must also ensure you do not get frustrated if it appears that you may not reach your goal in the time-limit you specified. These are draw-backs of goal-setting as far as the Law of Attraction is concerned. However, they can be over-come.
Set realistic easily managed goals at first. Once you become proficient at goal-achievement you can start to stretch yourself a little more each time. As you begin to see overwhelming evidence that the Law of Attraction exists and that it is working in your favour you will be able to set you goals higher and bigger until there is nothing you cannot achieve.
Remember that when you reach for a goal to generate as much positive thoughts and feelings you can as they will ad power to your efforts through the Law of Attraction thus attracting more and more things to you that will get you closer and closer to your objective, until finally it falls in your lap!
Using Law Of Attraction
By now, you're probably aware of a phenomenon called "The Secret". It may
seem a little ironic at this point, because when millions of people now know
about it, it can't really be considered a secret. Even though Oprah, Larry
King, and countless other media outlets have done full-length shows on the
topic, do you really understand it? If so, are you using it to improve every
aspect of your life? If not, do not be discouraged. These 7 simple steps
will show you how.
One basic concept that you must understand is that thoughts are things.
After some of the negative thoughts you've had, this may frighten you, but
don't worry. You always have the ability to choose your thoughts. No
outside influence or person can cause you to think things that you don't
want to think about. In any circumstance you have the ability to think
about prosperity.
This is a skill that must be developed by everyone. You don't just wake up
tomorrow after watching "The Secret" for the first time and be able to
completely control your mind. It is a discipline that will take some effort
on your part. You first have to be something and then you will attract it.
Become the person that you would like to be in your mind. Everything you
need to fulfill that vision will then be sent to you.
When forming this vision, you must be extremely clear on what you want. You
will get back exactly what you wished for. You always do. If you don't
believe that, stop and think about what you think about most of the time.
Is it debt? Is it worrying? The fact is that worry is a very powerful
attractive force. Worry about something and it is sure to come to you
quickly.
Totally eliminate thoughts of fear in your life. In order to get clear on
what you want, you need to write it down. Some of you may be thinking that
would take you the amount of paper used in a novel to get everything you
want. Don't worry about it. Just get it on paper. Think of it as a
shopping list. You pick and choose what you want and write it down. Then
after a gestation period, the universe delivers it to you on a silver
platter.
After getting very clear on what you want, it is essential to feel what it
would be like to have it. If your dream is to be rich, think about what it
would be like to have money. Picture your pool, your Lamborghini, or
whatever else it is that you will buy with the money. Just make sure you
can feel it.
Feeling is what induces the law of attraction. Once you've done this, you
must believe that it will work. You have to eliminate negative influences,
and doubt. Belief is the only attitude that will get you what you want.
With these steps, you too can attract all the wonderful things that you
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